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Broken Heart pt2

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Oh, okay, I found your original thread. As you had stated in your remarks, you come into play as the primary reason for your hurt and pain. I had an ungodly relationship with a woman for 2 years and God brought me to a place where he revealed to me than I held her and all my relationships with the women in my life higher than my relationship with Him. I looked it up in His word and He calls it idolatry. He saved you and He will not allow you to put anyone above Him because He truly loves you, as you know. You must counsel with Godly men in your church, for that is what the Body of Christ is for. This is a time of correction, but done in love. He told me in April of this year, do you like the hurt and pain and causing hurt and pain? I said no Lord, of course not! He said simply "Stop right where you are and read Psalm 51".

I love you my brother in the Lord!

You are in my prayers, in Jesus name!

Amen!
 
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Oh, okay, I found your original thread. As you had stated in your remarks, you come into play as the primary reason for your hurt and pain. I had an ungodly relationship with a woman for 2 years and God brought me to a place where he revealed to me than I held her and all my relationships with the women in my life higher than my relationship with Him. I looked it up in His word and He calls it idolatry. He saved you and He will not allow you to put anyone above Him because He truly loves you, as you know. You must counsel with Godly men in your church, for that is what the Body of Christ is for. This is a time of correction, but done in love. He told me in April of this year, do you like the hurt and pain and causing hurt and pain? I said no Lord, of course not! He said simply "Stop right where you are and read Psalm 51".

I love you my brother in the Lord!

You are in my prayers, in Jesus name!

Amen!
thank you. idoltry is something i realized too. i did put her first before God. problem is, i dont really have a home church and so i dont have any christian friends or family to pray for me or even talk about this where i can get Godly advice. that is why i came to these forums, in hopes to receive prayer. thank you for yours. do you have any other advice for me? Did God restore your relationship? Do u believe God is willing to restore our relationships after we repent?
 
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thank you. idoltry is something i realized too. i did put her first before God. problem is, i dont really have a home church and so i dont have any christian friends or family to pray for me or even talk about this where i can get Godly advice. that is why i came to these forums, in hopes to receive prayer. thank you for yours. do you have any other advice for me? Did God restore your relationship? Do u believe God is willing to restore our relationships after we repent?
God only restores relationships when it is his will even if you've repented it doesn't necessarily mean that God will restore this relationship. I'm sorry you are feeling so empty, but Satan is the reason for sadness and emptiness. God will pull you from this difficult situation, but you probably need to have this closure talk, go your separate ways for a while and see what happens.
It's easier said than done, but if God is speaking to you then it's best to do what he is telling you.
I pray that you come here often for prayers and support if you don't have a church or Christian people around you. I know I find comfort here.
Praying for you.
 
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God only restores relationships when it is his will even if you've repented it doesn't necessarily mean that God will restore this relationship. I'm sorry you are feeling so empty, but Satan is the reason for sadness and emptiness. God will pull you from this difficult situation, but you probably need to have this closure talk, go your separate ways for a while and see what happens.
It's easier said than done, but if God is speaking to you then it's best to do what he is telling you.
I pray that you come here often for prayers and support if you don't have a church or Christian people around you. I know I find comfort here.
Praying for you.
Thank you for the wisdom of your input. You are right! He will have to let go of the past and reach for the prize before him. I hoped for reconciliation in my relationship at first and then God pointed out that I, me, and my selfishness should have no part in wondering about past relationships. My focus should be on Him and what I can do through Him and in Him. Praise God! reconciliation, you need to fellowship with His people face to face too!
Pray that the Lord lead you to the place you should be.

God bless you, in His name.

Gary
 
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Heavenly Father, you know the specific circumstances that Hecandoit is in. You have the perfect plan and you always know what is best, so I pray in Jesus name that thy will is done. Give him comfort in knowing that this is in your hands and heal the hurt in his heart. Thank you for this and for all you do. Amen!
 
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Heavenly Father, you know the specific circumstances that Hecandoit is in. You have the perfect plan and you always know what is best, so I pray in Jesus name that thy will is done. Give him comfort in knowing that this is in your hands and heal the hurt in his heart. Thank you for this and for all you do. Amen!
Great prayer!
 
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Our Father, who art in heaven,
hallowed be thy name;
thy kingdom come;
thy will be done of earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread;
and forgive us our trespasses
as we forgive those who trespass against us;
and lead us not into temptation
but deliver us from evil.
 
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Our Father, who art in heaven,
hallowed be thy name;
thy kingdom come;
thy will be done of earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread;
and forgive us our trespasses
as we forgive those who trespass against us;
and lead us not into temptation
but deliver us from evil.
Thank you Ruth! Blessings from a brother in Christ!
 
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"Blessed be God, even the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies, and the God of all comfort; who comforteth us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble, by the comfort wherewith we ourselves are comforted of God" 2 Corinthians 1:3,4.
 
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I Promise To Never Forget The Passion Of Christ !!!


Father In Heaven Thank You For Giving Me Another Day To Pray And Worship Your Goodness. Dear Father I Pray For The Needs Here Of Which You Are Already Aware. I Ask That The Holy Spirit Enter And Meet All Needs. I Pray For Peace And Gentleness In Our Beloved Jesus Name . Amen
 
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