Break up

[ChrissyLovesJesus]

Well I guess I'll dive right into this...

I had my first relationship and my first break up in a matter of a month or so and my goodness, I guess it was good experience. He said he was a christian and that was like the first question I asked LOL. Things were going fine for a while and then he started getting "too friendly" too fast if you know what I mean. I told him I had not even kissed or anything before and now I regret that I let him be the first to kiss me cuz we broke up shortly after. He told me that I was "too good" for him, and he knew it wouldn't last cuz he doesn't want a relationship, but that I'm a really nice girl. I feel kinda bad that I let myself even get that far with him, but I think I learned a lesson. Has anyone been in this place before?

 

[JulesM]

I'm really sorry you've been hurt. That guys sounds like a real jerk. Don't worry about the fact you've kissed him. You can't change it - so don't use it to beat yourself up.

I'm sorry he duped you into thinking he was something he isn't. You are a 'nice girl' and thats a good thing. One day a 'nice guy' will come your way and you'll be happy because he treats you right.

Focus on God right now - pour your hurt out to Him.

 

[Leanna]

Many people have been in that place before. Breaking off from a relationship always hurts, and since you have some regrets it hurts more. I know how you feel. It doesn't usually seem so at the time, but after a while the pain goes away and you can see clearly that the other person wasn't right anyway.

 

[hasnoname]

Just learn from it. It is important to never sacrifice your beliefs for another person when you are dating. If you believed you shouldnt have kissed then you shouldnt have. Dont feel guilty or anything about it as we all screw up, but strength comes from learning from those mistakes. Next time do not sacrifice your convictions for someone. So much easier to say than to do.