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bratty children misbehaving, no discipline
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<blockquote data-quote="jpcedotal" data-source="post: 60429784" data-attributes="member: 243738"><p>Neither do time-outs, grounding, and any other form of discipline.</p><p></p><p>That is not the purpose of spanking, nor should it be. Again, people who do not spank think that those of us who do, ONLY spank and spank for every little incident. That is the hang-up and a total falsehood.</p><p></p><p>I use spanking for lying, stealing, cheating, serious rule violations (like disappearing in stores) and disrespecting other children and non-stranger adults. I spank with the desire to instill that these things are wrong period, first and foremost.. Of course I also explain why it is wrong and make sure the child knows. My child KNOWS that if he/she does these things, they will get a spanking, but they also know why these things are wrong. When they were very young, I am focus on correct behavior (don't do it) only. As they have gotten older I put more focus on the reasons behind correct behavior and the disappointment for their wrong actions that they cause to the people around them who love them.</p><p></p><p>I spank not to instill fear (another lie non-spankers tell or that they sincerely do not understand), but to instill the seriousness of the mistake.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="jpcedotal, post: 60429784, member: 243738"] Neither do time-outs, grounding, and any other form of discipline. That is not the purpose of spanking, nor should it be. Again, people who do not spank think that those of us who do, ONLY spank and spank for every little incident. That is the hang-up and a total falsehood. I use spanking for lying, stealing, cheating, serious rule violations (like disappearing in stores) and disrespecting other children and non-stranger adults. I spank with the desire to instill that these things are wrong period, first and foremost.. Of course I also explain why it is wrong and make sure the child knows. My child KNOWS that if he/she does these things, they will get a spanking, but they also know why these things are wrong. When they were very young, I am focus on correct behavior (don't do it) only. As they have gotten older I put more focus on the reasons behind correct behavior and the disappointment for their wrong actions that they cause to the people around them who love them. I spank not to instill fear (another lie non-spankers tell or that they sincerely do not understand), but to instill the seriousness of the mistake. [/QUOTE]
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