"Bless Our Hubby Club"

TammyInChrist · Sep 28, 2005

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This club is to encourage and edify one another in their journey to blessing their husband.

It is my goal to learn how to bless my husband each and everyday, no matter what the circumstance, he is the head of the household and is to be treated like a king, (ouch!) whether he is committed to Christ or not.

If you would like to share how you bless your hubby and read how others bless theirs, then come on in and post away.

MonicaNeva · Oct 18, 2005

I love the idea of this club! I also make it my goal to bless my husband each and every day. Sometimes I wonder how, though. Praying for him, that's a definite way of blessing him, and I do that every day. But what else? Rich Mullins said, "A spiritual thing is folding your clothes at the end of the day. A spiritual thing is making your bed. A spiritual thing is taking cookies to your neighbor that is shut in or raking their front lawn because they are too old to do it. That is spirituality." So if that's true, then by doing simple things for my husband I am blessing him. Sometimes, though, it's hard for me to even do those simple things. But perhaps if I were a member of this club, we could be each other's support for one another and give each other ideas on how we could better bless our husbands.

A good idea I just thought of is leaving a Bible verse written down somewhere where he will find it sometime during the day... like maybe in the ice chest he takes to work for lunch every day...

TammyInChrist · Oct 18, 2005

Thank You Monica for joining When I posted about this club I wasnt sure how to express what I wanted it to really be....my husband isnt living for God right now and it is hard to treat him with love and respect ALL THE TIME. I so want to treat him like God wants me too.

Monica, you are so right about being a support group and learning how to better bless our husbands, thanks so much

I think leaving your husband a verse sounds great, Ya know I think whatever we do for our husbands to show them we love them and are thinking of them is called a blessing....I so want to be the sweet, kind and loving wife that I should be....I want to be pleasing to him and the more I please him the more he pleases me

I look forward to hearing how you bless your husband...there is no limit to posting here....if you have a thought or suggestion post it....this is for anyone that wants to share and do the Lord's will in blessing our husbands

Chrissy4 · Oct 18, 2005

TammyInChrist said:
[sign] Hello and Welcome[/sign]

This club is to encourage and edify one another in their journey to blessing their husband.

It is my goal to learn how to bless my husband each and everyday, no matter what the circumstance, he is the head of the household and is to be treated like a king, (ouch!) whether he is committed to Christ or not.

If you would like to share how you bless your hubby and read how others bless theirs, then come on in and post away.

My husband is a true blesing. He not very romanic i must add. But, he is a hard work and loves his family. He work very hard to make enough money, so that I can stay at home with the kids. And when he is not working he is playing with his girl or helping me around the house. I love him very much. And I thank God for Blessing me witha wonderful husband.

ArohaB · Oct 19, 2005

I bless my Husband by listening to the words he hasn't said even when he's speaking, like his mood tells me more about how he's feeling than what he's saying, so I'll adjust my sensitivity accordingly so I'm creating an atmosphere for him to open up without me asking him to. (Then he thinks it's his idea - men love that).

This club is a great idea cos my Husband isn't a Christian, and I need to represent Christ for him to learn to trust, because he's had a hard time in life, which can sometimes be very hard, cos I like my own way.

TammyInChrist · Oct 19, 2005

Chrissy4 said:
My husband is a true blesing. He not very romanic i must add. But, he is a hard work and loves his family. He work very hard to make enough money, so that I can stay at home with the kids. And when he is not working he is playing with his girl or helping me around the house. I love him very much. And I thank God for Blessing me witha wonderful husband.

Hi Chrissy and welcome to our club...your explaination of your husband just resounds with love and respect!
I know what you mean about him not being very romantic, I think they pull the wool over our eyes so we fall in love and then the real man shows after marriage, we are probably the same way too

I think it's wonderful that your husband helps you around the house! Mine is starting to more, and even more so this past week...which in turn makes me want to show more attention!

I am also blessed to stay at home with my kids, (13yrs and 3 yrs) God is teaching me to be thankful even when I sometimes feel trapped...my 3 yr old was a very big surprise! And that is where my need for blessing my husband comes in...I want to be so intune with him, it's so hard when he comes home and the kids are talking and I'm trying to talk etc. it can be so chaotic and I know the Lord wants us to be in peace, we women are suppose to control the atmosphere of our homes, and I SO WANT TO LEARN

TammyInChrist · Oct 19, 2005

ArohaB said:
I bless my Husband by listening to the words he hasn't said even when he's speaking, like his mood tells me more about how he's feeling than what he's saying, so I'll adjust my sensitivity accordingly so I'm creating an atmosphere for him to open up without me asking him to. (Then he thinks it's his idea - men love that).

This club is a great idea cos my Husband isn't a Christian, and I need to represent Christ for him to learn to trust, because he's had a hard time in life, which can sometimes be very hard, cos I like my own way.

Hello ArohaB so nice to meet you, welcome and thanks for joining!

I like what you posted about listening to your husband even when he isnt speaking....I try to do that too, I see how he is doing when he comes in and take it from there...I must admit it's hard for me not to think something is wrong if he comes in and doesnt want to talk and just lays around, but have found out if I dont get offended and just stay calm then everything is fine....I have been known to blow things out of proportion and try to make him talk because I might have had a bad day but it never works out for my good! I'm learning though, thanks for your input

I hear ya on having your way it's hard to lay that part down isnt it? I have felt left out so to speak cause it seems he does his own thing so much and I feel like I am the one that is always giving and with the kids BUT GOD is (trying) to show me differently...that if I lay my wants and needs down and cater to my husband first then it will come back to bless me! I have a tendency to forget and blow it and then go back around the same mountain again

*Dear God give us women the strength to endure til the end, to be better wives to our husbands loving and desiring them and submitting to them as unto the Lord, In Jesus Name, AMEN!!!

beehoney · Oct 19, 2005

I bless him with hugs and my prayers.

ArohaB · Oct 19, 2005

I bless him by waking him in the middle of the night to show him my appreciation

beehoney · Oct 20, 2005

I blessed him by making dinner today.

Sacha Saint Francis · Oct 20, 2005

Hi girls

TammyInChrist said:
I see how he is doing when he comes in and take it from there...I must admit it's hard for me not to think something is wrong if he comes in and doesnt want to talk and just lays around, but have found out if I dont get offended and just stay calm then everything is fine

HaHa, isn't that true! A woman I highly respect explained to me that this is called "cave time", and since then my hubby and I use this term like a code word with each other with much success! Now I just say "do you want some cave time honey?", instead of going on and on with "what's wrong? is something the matter? why are you so quiet? did I do something wrong? what are you doing?" etc etc, I now know that he needs at least 2 hours a night of cave time where I leave him alone and don't bug him. Must be a guy thing.

TammyInChrist said:
if I lay my wants and needs down and cater to my husband first then it will come back to bless me! I have a tendency to forget and blow it and then go back around the same mountain again

Ditto! It seems my monthly confession always starts off with "I have not been loving/patient/kind enough to my husband".

Monica has a good idea of leaving love letters or scripture verses in his lunch box.

Of course, praying for our husbands every single day is the MOST important aspect of our lives as wives. I have a nice prayer for hubbies that I'll post if anyone's interested.

Your sister in Christ,
Sacha

Peaceful Dove · Oct 20, 2005

Hi all
What a wonderful club.
My sweetheart and I were married 50 years last February. Let me list some wonderful ways to bless your darlings.
1) First, call them sweetheart, darling, my dearest, honey. Keep these and more loving terms always in your conversation.
2) Start everyday by reading and praying about I Corinthinas CH 13. Ask God to give you that wonderful kind of love.
3 Never, NEVER, NEVER join in gossip with the girls about the faults of hubby. It is ugly and disloyal and will always damage a marriage. Always tell your friends about his virtues and never breath a word about his faults.
4)At least once every single hour that you are with him and awake, tell him something you love about him. Build him up. A healthy male ego is a gift from God.
Let him know you pray blessings on him, but never preach to him. NEVER!!!! Hubby is to be spiritual head of the family even if he is not as spiritual as you are. If you are unequally yoked and have been since you married, it is your fault, not his.

Remember, if you want to be treated like a queen, treat him like a king.

Always expect him to treat you like a lady, opening doors for you, helping you on with your wrap, those old fashioned things we rarely see today. You might even start by letting him know that it makes you feel like a lady and especially when he takes his hat off in the house.
This is a male ego builder, guaranteed. Men like to treat the loves of their hearts like ladies in public.
In private, let it all hang out. I think you know what I mean.

TammyInChrist · Oct 21, 2005

Welcome to our new members BeeHoney, Sacha Saint Francis, and Peaceful Dove

Thanks for being here and contributing

TammyInChrist · Oct 21, 2005

Sacha Saint Francis said:
Of course, praying for our husbands every single day is the MOST important aspect of our lives as wives. I have a nice prayer for hubbies that I'll post if anyone's interested.

Your sister in Christ,
Sacha

Yes Please! post that nice prayer for hubbies, thanks so much for posting here Sacha

TammyInChrist · Oct 21, 2005

Peaceful Dove said:
Hi all
What a wonderful club.
My sweetheart and I were married 50 years last February. Let me list some wonderful ways to bless your darlings.
1) First, call them sweetheart, darling, my dearest, honey. Keep these and more loving terms always in your conversation.
2) Start everyday by reading and praying about I Corinthinas CH 13. Ask God to give you that wonderful kind of love.
3 Never, NEVER, NEVER join in gossip with the girls about the faults of hubby. It is ugly and disloyal and will always damage a marriage. Always tell your friends about his virtues and never breath a word about his faults.
4)At least once every single hour that you are with him and awake, tell him something you love about him. Build him up. A healthy male ego is a gift from God.
Let him know you pray blessings on him, but never preach to him. NEVER!!!! Hubby is to be spiritual head of the family even if he is not as spiritual as you are. If you are unequally yoked and have been since you married, it is your fault, not his.

Remember, if you want to be treated like a queen, treat him like a king.

Always expect him to treat you like a lady, opening doors for you, helping you on with your wrap, those old fashioned things we rarely see today. You might even start by letting him know that it makes you feel like a lady and especially when he takes his hat off in the house.
This is a male ego builder, guaranteed. Men like to treat the loves of their hearts like ladies in public.
In private, let it all hang out. I think you know what I mean.

Oh Peaceful Dove....THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! I loved reading every word you posted and will continue to re-read!

TammyInChrist · Oct 21, 2005

yanno, as I posted here the other day I started to wonder if I was blessing my husband or if I even knew how.....well I made an effort to try to bless him and this is what I came up with.....

I hugged him and smiled alot when he came home, I was attentive to him, I sat down and watched TV with him and liked it on pupose instead of wishing I was doing something else! and even though I went to bed about 30 minutes later than he did, he hugged me so tenderly and I just thanked God for it/him!

I look forward to blessing him more and more

**thanks ladies for posting**

Peaceful Dove · Oct 22, 2005

LOVE!!!! You just can't give it away. You try and it just keeps coming back to you.

Great, isn't it?

ArohaB · Oct 23, 2005

Goodness me, I hope I end up that mushy some day.
I bless my Husband by praying for God to keep my mouth shut when it should be, and to censor what I want to say when it's open...

Peaceful Dove · Oct 23, 2005

ArohaB said:
Goodness me, I hope I end up that mushy some day.
I bless my Husband by praying for God to keep my mouth shut when it should be, and to censor what I want to say when it's open...

Awww, common, try being mushy.

Why don't you share some of the wonderful things about your hubby you fell in love with?

I bet if you really work at it you can be super mushy! It's much easier than you think.

TammyInChrist · Oct 23, 2005

Peaceful Dove said:
Awww, common, try being mushy.

Why don't you share some of the wonderful things about your hubby you fell in love with?

I bet if you really work at it you can be super mushy! It's much easier than you think.

Yes! Share anything that will make you think positive thoughts about him.....that's what I'm trying to do....Lord knows I got enough negative thoughts that I could dwell on

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