Biggest Issue

[Jamida]

Okay ... just a question:

Besides sexual issues, what are the biggest things you struggle with in your marriage, why, and how do you cope with it or solve it?

Example:

My issue: Not as affectionate as I am

Why: He's a left brainer, fact finder, and just time spent together fulfills his love tank. Me, a right brainer, creative thinker, and be cuddly and my tank gets full

Solution: Communicate needs, make the other do it!! I force hug him until he hugs me back with a laugh and an "oh, yeah, I forgot, you're one of THOSE people". I just go do stuff with him even if I'm bored stiff.

 

[Iddie4him]

I am a real stickler for things being orderly and neat, My wife, E-Beth would say that I am a perfectionist. I try not to be, But, I guess its inbred from my Dad. I am also really nit-picky about the finances, I took them over a year ago and it drives me insane most times.

My other issue is that when my wife say she loves my, I ask her "Why ?" She gets upset with me cause I don't always tell her "I Love You too." I guess that needs to change.