being a foster parent

[auerpower]

Hi everyone... Next year I am going to become a foster parent, and since this is the "mature singles forum" I thought I would ask you all if you ever considered becoming a foster parent. Foster parents are desparately needed, and if you have a bedroom open in your home...maybe you would at least consider it. Lets here your thoughts on Foster Parents and being single.

 

[BeautyForAshes]

That's wonderful that you've decided to become a foster parent. I'll be praying for you.

Initially, I've never considered becoming one and really up until recently, I've never really thought about adoption either. Now, I would like to adopt a child, but because I'm single, I really don't feel I could give a child the love and attention that he/she needs (because of my job).

If I were to adopt (or even become a foster parent) I need to give him/her extra time and attention - which I don't feel like I could adequately give right now because of working full-time.

For example, when I have to work overtime, who will be there for him/her? Or when I have to travel out of town? If I had a spouse, this wouldn't be an issue, but I don't so these are things I have to consider.

Maybe one day though...

 

[miss Karla]

I've thought of doing this....actually seriously considered it a few years ago. Right now I'm settling into a new life and catching up with myself. I struggle with wanting a family...but don't know if I'm ready to adopt or even take in foster children as a single person.

God bless you for being a foster parent! Many prayers coming your way.