Spunkn said in post 2:
Baptism is something that is strongly commanded for us to do as believers, however, the act of baptism does not actually save us.
Actually, baptism does save us, insofar as in order to be saved ultimately, believers must get water-immersion (burial) baptized into Jesus' death for our sins (Mk. 16:16, 1 Pet. 3:21, Rom. 6:3-11, Col. 2:12, Gal. 3:27, Acts 2:38, 22:16).
Spunkn said in post 2:
Only through faith are we saved, not by works.
Baptism is a kind of circumcision (Col. 2:11-13, Philip, 3:3, Rom. 2:29). Just as Abraham, who is a model for Christians, was initially saved by faith alone, prior to his circumcision (Rom. 4), so we're initially saved by faith alone (Eph. 2:8-9, Titus 3:5, Rom. 4:2-5), prior to our baptism (Acts 8:36-38, Jn. 20:31). But just as Abraham was ultimately saved by his works (Jas. 2:21-24), so we'll be ultimately saved by our works (Rom. 2:6-8, Jas. 2:24, Mt. 7:21, 25:26,30, Philip. 2:12b, 3:11-14, 2 Cor. 5:9, Heb. 5:9, 6:10-12, 2 Pet. 1:10-11, Jn. 15:2a), which must include getting water-immersion (burial) baptized (Mk. 16:16, 1 Pet. 3:21, Rom. 6:3-11, Col. 2:12, Gal. 3:27, Acts 2:38, 22:16).
Spunkn said in post 2:
One of the best examples is the thief on the cross. He was not baptized, and yet Jesus said "Today you shall be with me in Paradise."
The thief on the cross could have been baptized before Lk. 23:42-43 happened, but then backslid & committed theft. Also, baptism is only a New Testament/New Covenant requirement for ultimate salvation (Mk. 16:16, 1 Pet. 3:21, Acts 2:38, 22:16, Rom. 6:3-11, Gal. 3:27, Col. 2:12), & the New Covenant wasn't put into legal effect until Jesus died (Heb. 9:16-17, Mt. 26:28). But Lk. 23:42-43 happened before Jesus died, so baptism wasn't yet a requirement for ultimate salvation. But now that Jesus' death is past, believers have to obey all his New Covenant commandments (Jn. 14:21-24) if they want to obtain ultimate salvation (Heb. 5:9, Rom. 2:6-8), including his commandment every believer get baptized (Mt. 28:19-20, Mk. 16:16, Acts 2:38), & by immersion/"burial" in the water of baptism (Rom. 6:4, Col. 2:12, cf. 1 Cor. 14:37). Also, a saved person can in the end lose his salvation if he wrongly employs his free will to commit unrepentant sin (Heb. 10:26-29, 1 Cor. 9:27, Lk. 12:45-46), which includes unrepentant sins of omission (Jas. 4:17), which would include refusing without repentance to get baptized, & by immersion.
Spunkn said in post 2:
John 3:16 For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son that whosoever believes in Him should not perish but have eternal life.
Amen.
But in the original Greek, the verb translated above as "should not perish" is in the subjunctive mood. This means it's referring to a conditional action. So it should be translated as "may not perish". Other, related verses show that believers ultimately retaining their salvation will be conditional on their continued belief to the end (e.g. Heb. 3:6,12,14, 6:4-8, Col. 1:23), their continued good works to the end (e.g. Rom. 2:6-8, Mt. 7:21, 25:26,30), & their continued repentance from every sin they might commit to the end (e.g. Heb. 10:26-29, Lk. 12:45-46, 1 Cor. 9:27). The way to do Christian theology isn't to base it on just what some unqualified verses say to Christians, but on what the entire Bible says to Christians (2 Tim. 3:16, Mt. 4:4). Verses applicable to Christians in one place in the Bible must be compared with (qualified by) other, related verses (also applicable to Christians) elsewhere in the Bible (Isa. 28:9-10, 1 Cor. 2:13).
Spunkn said in post 2:
Now there are verses that do talk about believing about being baptized, but the baptism is often talking about the baptism of the Holy Spirit when we receive Christ.
Regarding believers getting Holy Spirit baptized (Acts 11:15-16, 10:44-46), they usually have to ask to receive the Holy Spirit (Lk. 11:13b) baptism, for it isn't usually automatically given to them the moment they become believers. That's why Paul asked some believers: "Have ye received the Holy Spirit since ye believed?" (Acts 19:2). Believers usually receive Holy Spirit baptism through prayer accompanied by the laying on of hands, subsequent to water baptism (Acts 8:15-17, 19:5-6). Holy Spirit baptism won't result in speaking in tongues for everyone (1 Cor. 12:30), but for almost everyone, as tongues are one of the Spirit's lesser gifts (1 Cor. 12:8-11,28, 14:5). Many believers haven't yet experienced Holy Spirit baptism simply because they haven't yet asked for it, under the principle of "ye have not, because ye ask not" (Jas. 4:2b). Many believers haven't yet asked for it because they've come under the influence of mistaken teachings which say it's no longer in effect. Believers can get hands laid on them to receive Holy Spirit baptism at any Pentecostal-type congregation, or at any charismatic-type congregation, which can be of almost any denomination.