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Morning Greetings!

In a week or two we are getting a new kitten.

We have a 7yr old cat who is just terrible to any type of cat that comes around the house. This cat, while an older kitten about six yrs ago, got used to a younger kitten, but was really rotten while getting use to him.


Well, when that younger kitten turned 5, took off and left us during a household cross country move, never to return.

Now, two years after that, we are getting this new kitten.

How am I gonna get my 7yr old cat again use to another cat in the house? She is older now and may not be as "accepting" of a new cat as she was when younger.

My current cat is a huge hunter and Im afraid she will be so jealous and hunt down the new kitten. I plan on keeping them seperate for much of the first week or two, but how do I increase their time together and help them accept each other?

I also would like some tips on how to make this new kitten feel at home and not upset about leaving the litter and mom.

Thanks for whatever advise you can offer!

Sending Kind Regards,
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I know that in a lot of cases, older cats don't like rambunctious, young kittens simply because they're too active, and it gets annoying. It's a lot like how older people don't always like to be around noisy children. :) Your idea of keeping them separate for awhile is good....I'd start out by keeping your kitten in a bedroom, with the door shut, when your older cat is around. Let the older cat go up to the door and sniff and meow and make a fuss if he feels the need to. Let the kitten out to explore when the older cat isn't around. If you have a baby gate, maybe after a few days of not letting the cats see each other, you could put that up so they'd still be separate, but not allowed to really interact. By this time, you'll have had a chance to observe your new kitten's behavior patterns, so you'll know when he or she is most mellow and quiet. That's the time you should let the cats meet for real. Oh, and above all else, GET THEM SEPARATE LITTER BOXES!!!!! Cats do NOT like to share in most cases, and since you know your older cat has problems with other cats, I'd say it goes double in your cases. Also, try and feed them at separate times, in separate food dishes,so no one eats anyone else's food. Good luck! :)
 
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We have the same problem withour 2 cats. 12 year old Callie despises 2 year old Henry. Poor Henry just want's to play with Callie but she just growls, hisses and runs away from him.
When Henry first came to live with us we didn't have to worry about keeping them separated. SHE stayed as far away from the little twerp as she possibly could. She still hates him but they can at least be in the same room together now.

One piece of advice though. It might be kind to get them separate litter boxes. I know my cats appreciate their own "dumping ground".;) If they didn't have their own boxes there would be "accidents" all over the house. They refuse to share that little area of their lives. Maybe separate feeding dishes would be a good idea too.
 
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Hi

Well, the kitten arrived yesterday evening. All seems ok right now.

My adult cat is not really interested, and each time we put them together, she hisses, sniffs, hisses some more then leaves.

I dont think I can leave them together at all. I sure hope that sometime soon I can. I just dont trust my adult cat right now.

Is this really the way it goes?
 
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My aunt has an older cat, and when she brought home and kitten man was he mad. She said he walked all around the house and hissed and hissed even when the kitten wasn't around. But gradually, after a few weeks , he grew attached to the kitten. Now they both love each other.He used to be a scaredy cat, but the other cat really mellowed him.
She has since gotten another kitten and the older cat has no problem with it. Its the ex-new kitten now thats jealous.;)

So, your cat may get over it eventually.
 
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And here he is, my new family addition; who does not sleep at night!

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That is SUCH a cute picture!

Your situations sounds exactly like ours. Old cat can't STAND young cat. She growls and hisses, then runs away. Young cat just sits and stares at her like she's some kind of freak--he just wants to play! But he does leave her alone. Her hisses must have some effect on him.

We were nervous about leaving them alone together too. After some time though we began to realize there would be no problems. The worst that has happened is the growling and hissing and an occasional swipe with the paw.

I bet they'll do fine. But give it some time so that you don't have to worry yourself sick wondering if they've killed each other while you are away.
 
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