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Carri20

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Well, I'm back...not because I'm single again (I still have a boyfriend) but because...uhh...I kinda miss the place? And someone once pointed out that if you're not married you can still technically consider yourself single, so...yeah. Like it or not, here I am.
 

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awww...you're back..good to see you.
 
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invisiblebabe

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Welcome back I've seen you around and you seem really cool!

I like to debate definitions and such; you'll figure that out about me pretty fast haha. I do it out of desire for intellectual stimulation/desire to express my views and opinions/desire to influence others to think critically. I don't do it to argue or anything.

So, my fun debate of the night: as for not being married = being able to consider yourself single, I believe this is true only legally. For me at least, engagement has been a time of becoming one with my fiance emotionally, spiritually, intellectually, and socially. I see no way we could consider ourselves single, we are so united. And, in New Testament times, betrothals were not marriage, but they were legally binding commitments.

Just a few interesting thoughts,
God bless
kayli
 
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