Wretched: What Happens to Babies Who Die? - YouTube
Could I get some Reformed opinions on this topic? What did Gill or Matthew Henry say?
Could I get some Reformed opinions on this topic? What did Gill or Matthew Henry say?
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Sadly it sounds like you were exposed to the Al Martin brand of Reformed Baptist. I am truly sorry for that.As one who is in a church where the blessings of God's covenant family are regularly taught, I have confidence that I will see my daughter again. God has given me peace in my heart, though He saw fit to take her from me.
I was in a Reformed Baptist church that would not have taught this, but that is a huge part of why we (and now my parents as well) are happy to be in churches that are more inclusive of and sympathetic to children. Growing up, our church would not consider a child saved until a "credible profession" at age 17. We were stiff-armed, and it was so discouraging.
As to the OP, David had faith that he would see his son again ...
The Scriptures simply aren't clear on the subject. David did make the statement that can be construed to mean his dead child was in Heaven but you cannot build a doctrine on it. I understand the Presbyterian view as one of compassion but it simply isn't Biblical. We don't know and that is OK. We do know that God is merciful and loving good and righteous. We can rest in that knowledge and leave the secret things to Him. Deut. 29:29
The Bible isn't clear on the matter. There is a hint in 2 Samuel 12, but it is not a definite answer. That said, I think we find our answer by looking at the example of Christ and how He treated children. We can safely assume (although not actively teach, since the Bible isn't clear on the matter) that all people who die in infancy or childhood are elect.
The scary side of that assumption, then, is that it turns abortion and infanticide into an act of mercy. I think we can safely assume that God knows what He is doing regarding each infant as a specific case. There is no blanket assumption about all infants that is either biblical or safe. The danger or risk associated with any general assumption is probably why the Bible is silent on the issue.
I think we're always wrong when we force our assumptions or desires on the Creator of the Universe. It's not our role to require compliance of God to our own definition of justice. We don't have the wisdom to do so.
If every dying infant is elect, then praise God, but I'm glad He hasn't told us so. If He did, then someone would have a logical reason to support abortion and the murder of babies. It would be the greatest mercy we could show to them, because it would secure their eternal futures. At the least, it could put our minds at ease regarding abortion, because, well, if they are all in Heaven what do we need to get all worked up about?
The Bible says that there are none righteous, not one. No mention of babies as exceptions.
But if babies are elect, then they will receive the gift of faith and repentance.
I don't time at the moment to go into it fully but I would suggest looking up Covenant Succession. This also dovetails into pedobaptism.
I will try to bring more info later.