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Awkward question about effeminacy

Spunkn

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I've worn tights before. I wear a form of tights all the time underneath other layers of clothing anytime I go snowboarding or it's really cold outside. It help keeps me warmer. So no, there's nothing wrong with it if it's simply a piece of clothing used for a particular purpose.

However, there is often a problem with men wanting to wear women's clothing for different reasons, and it "feels" good is often the excuse used. That's the only concern I had. I'm sorry that you feel that I was using "amateur psychology" on you, but people do often have issues that come from their past. It shapes who we are to a great extent. And with a post like this, more information is usually needed about the person to find out what's going on. That's all I was trying to do, is get more information.

Anyway, I hope you found the answers you were looking for.
 
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I tried to get a similar conversation going, BSharp. Shot down by a few loud-mouths who were more interested in their own opinions. That's what people go on forums to do - state what they think - not listen to what others are saying. I'd like to join in on a forum about this, but I don't want to have to always be debating the thing.
From how it sounds, you and I are alike in the pantyhose department. I wear them. I've come to terms with it. My wife also is used to me in them.
PS - I can get private messages, but not send any until I have 15 posts.
 
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