Just finished reading the book "Every Man's Battle" by Stephen Arterburn, Fred Stoeker with Mike Yorkey.
It sounds like an incredible struggle men face to be pure in God's eyes when men are stimulated by sight in a society where we are bombarded with sexual stimuli every day. But according to the book it is possible to be devoted in every way to their spouse and God.
I was facing issues in regards to my husband's actions and now i can relate better. Doesn't mean he can do whatever he wants and i accept it, but i can see what a struggle it can be. He always said it was me that had the problem with jealousy but it is mentioned in the book that I am not responsible for his actions/thoughts-he is. He is in the process of reading the book too.
It sounds like an incredible struggle men face to be pure in God's eyes when men are stimulated by sight in a society where we are bombarded with sexual stimuli every day. But according to the book it is possible to be devoted in every way to their spouse and God.
I was facing issues in regards to my husband's actions and now i can relate better. Doesn't mean he can do whatever he wants and i accept it, but i can see what a struggle it can be. He always said it was me that had the problem with jealousy but it is mentioned in the book that I am not responsible for his actions/thoughts-he is. He is in the process of reading the book too.