Attracted to a weakness

[wiseguide]

Have you ever been attracted to someone because of a weakness? It's like they just don't get it and you like them for that reason.

It's like, I'll hear a woman say something. Ask a question that sounds kind of dumb. Maybe she's even older than I am. It doesn't offend but really just makes you laugh. But it's like something I might have said when I was 15, and something I considered immature for my (young) age at the time. It's like an innocence.

 

[Living4Him03]

Yah. For some reason I find it attractive when a guy can't spell. It's kinda cute.

 

[PurpleBunny]

Until I met my fiance, I tended to fall hard and fast for "bad" boys... the worst case was with a guy who was out with some mutual friends... they came back to dorm rather inebriated (I had an exam the next day so I was pulling a late-nighter studying) and he kept taking off his pants and wouldn't put them back on (he did have boxers on though).

For some reason it took me 2 years to get him out of my head and he's still one of my best friends LOL

Now I have a weakness for computer nerds who spend too much time online *giggle*

 

[fluffy_rainbow]

I am a "fixer" by nature. I tend to date the insecure guys with severe psychological problems. I gravitate towards guys who come from broken homes or lost a parent at a young age because I feel I need to help them fill the void. I date the insecure guys to boost their egos because it, in turn, makes me feel important and needed. It's a dangerous habit one that I am earnestly praying for the Lord to break me of. Bear in mind, I was deep into this pattern of dating men who needed "fixing" when I was very lost and living in and for the world. I'm praying now that I'm trying to get my life back on track things will be so much different.

 

[wiseguide]

I don't think it's necessarily a bad thing. It's sort of Biblical. We are to minister to those in need.

 

[FatBurger]

One of the best quotes I've heard recently:
You like someone for their strengths, but love them for their weaknesses.