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At it again...

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tryingtobeagain

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My husband is at it again. He posted pictures of himself in bed with another woman on his blog and then above it he posted a poem he wrote that talks about no longer wanting to search for other women because he is so happy with the wife that God gave him and he pledges to be the best husband to his wife and hopes we can make a new start. It also went into the vows of marriage and how he plans to stick by them til death. It bothers me that he dosen't take marriage seriously after he had talked about the importance of a christian marriage before we married.

It's getting to me less and less as he continues this behaviour and I'm happy that I am moveing forward. I ordered the divorce papers and they should be here in the next two weeks. I know it's going to be hard for me but I know it's best.
 
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tryingtobeagain

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I don't know if he's talking about a new girl or not. He's told me before that I am his only wife for the rest of his life so I'm tempted to think it's about me but I wouldn't put anything past him. He still won't give me an address but I'm going to put my paperwork into the courthouse at least that way I'll have a record of what I'm trying to do.
 
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I am sorry to hear that your husband is cheating on you. That would be hard to forgive. It sounds like that youn are on the right course. Does he do this to hurt you ? Or to just get the attention. It does not really matter because in both cases it is wrong. I wll pray for you to make the best choice. I will support you it what ever is. From what you stated you, it sounds like divorce.
 
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