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Asperger's Syndrome Characteristics

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uniquetadpole

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I am posting this with permission from Roger Meyer so that people can better understand the diagnosis of Asperger's Syndrome and what it really means in layman's terms. I hope this helps.

 

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****Continued from previous post****

 
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uniquetadpole said:
First off Aspergers is Autism, well a form of it. The difference between Aspergers and HFA (High Functining Autism) is the speech component. In AS there is no significant speech delay.


Correct I have a 12 year old son with Aspergers and a 6 year old son with HFA...the only difference between them is the speech issues my youngest has. Thanks for a wonderful post!
 
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Unfortunately, as someone with AS, I must disagree with a lot with what has been given:

1. The source isn't by an expert in Asperger's Syndrome but in law. As such, a lot of items have been either exaggerated or are in error in some form or another.
2. Asperger's Syndrome used to be considered the "highest functioning form" of Autism, but many experts in the field question that notion. This is due to a number of factors, including and most importantly that people with AS not only try to have relationships and succeed far more often but also because of the quality is that much greater. In addition, the fact that people with AS tend to have IQs that are usually above normal, whereas people with Autism tend to have IQs that are actually below average.

Quite frankly, like a great deal of disabilities, AS have similarities with others. Just because a child is deeply focused on a certain "field" doesn't mean he or she has both AS and AD(H)D, just to give one example. A great deal of "lay experts" make that critical and terrible mistake. As a victim of such mistakes, I urge everyone never to jump the gun and always ask for second, third, and, yes, even fourth opinions if necessary.

Lastly, never self-diagnose yourself. Let real experts, not those with degrees in law, diagnose you. And as a future teacher, I will remind all reading this that while teachers cannot diagnose, they do have training to recognize disabilities and have the authority to suggest parents/guardians go to experts. Never ignore such advice; more often than not, they are right.
 
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Thank you for posting that! I've done some studying on Asperger's Syndrome over the past few years. I haven't been professionally diagnosed, but I have self-diagnosed myself with it, having nearly every characteristic mentioned, and nothing else that would cause them.
G~d bless,
~Lily~
 
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I'm new to this, as yet I am self-diagnosed but profoundly sure the diagnosis is on target, and I'm left wondering by this post. I got a different read of it even from the intro:

I came away with a sense that he was not describing anything that was merely his own opinions, nor would I gather from the first highlighted sentence that a degree in law would hinder anyone from gathering infomation on AS from the sources he has culled them from.

And from the second highlighted sentence I gather this list is not intended to be dogmatic or rigid, and that there is variation from one person to another with the diagnosis.

And a third factor, but one which he did not bring to bear in compiling the list, is the fact that he himself was diagnosed AS at age 55, as he details on his website.

So maybe it's just me or it might be something in the air, but did I miss something here?
 
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Whatever. But since I made more than one point, it would be helpful if you pointed out exactly what you "countered." But among other things, I was "countering" the idea that the source of the quotes is not as out of touch with AS as you seemed to be suggesting.

Not trying to make anything out of it, it just seemed to me that a lot of the man's points resonated with my own experience and with what I've observed in my sons. And some of it did not--but then, Meyer had already said not all of it would, nor should it be expected that every symptom will be present in every person.

And I agreed with you 100% on this:

will remind all reading this that while teachers cannot diagnose, they do have training to recognize disabilities and have the authority to suggest parents/guardians go to experts. Never ignore such advice; more often than not, they are right.

Trained teachers in the schools were the ones who caught the traits when both my sons were diagnosed. The irony of it is, we were in one of the poorer school districts, and we have moved since then to a district we supposed would be better equipped. I think we were better off in the poorer district, which tells me, don't automatically assume that a better-funded and/or academically superior school system will necessarily be better able to provide for the needs of children with AS. In our case, it came down to individual teachers going the extra mile for the extra need.
 
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