So your in class. You try to keep your thoughts clean. But you get "dirty" thoughts...worse yet there about the person who sits in front of you and is your gender. How do you get around it? I've been struggling since I was 12 and it keeps getting harder especially now that it's more "accepted" to be homosexual. Every single day I have to sit behind this particular girl who well quite frankly i find attractive. Any ideas? If I ask for a seat change what should i say for the reason? I don't want to lie but it would be weird to say "Because I'm struggling with my sexuality and I find her paticularly attractive."