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CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.
I don't know your story catlover but your pain is clear. I'm praying for you. I understand how lonely and painful life can be. My solace is found in turning to Jesus who knew true loneliness, betrayal and cruelty on the cross. In him we can trust our Father as he did. I pray that in the midst of your pain you will know his comfort and peace.
Praying for you
In Jesus
Hope
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FLANDIDLYANDERS
When I am slain may my corpse lie facing the Enemy
If I'm really bad, a curry and beer sorts it for a while 
And a god chat with some mates.
And a god chat with some mates.
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catlover
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If I'm really bad, a curry and beer sorts it for a while
I wish I could have a drink, but I am psycho when I drink. Antidepressents and booze don't mix.
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catlover
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A few days, I miss my house, which will be his house. There is no point in splitting it down the middle, all that would mean is more debt,he can have it.
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tryingtobeagain
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Do you have a support system? My friends and family were amazing in helping me deal wiht my loneliness. They still are there whenever I need them although I'm growing more comfortable in being by myself. If you need to chat feel free to pm me.
My advice would be to surround yourself with the people who love you. Seek out support in church too. And always pray, God is with us most when we feel we are most alone.
My advice would be to surround yourself with the people who love you. Seek out support in church too. And always pray, God is with us most when we feel we are most alone.
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WendyV
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I too moved out of our family home, no-one could understand why, everyone said you sould stay, you have custody, make him move out! But in the long run it has been a blessing that I did move out - I now live in a better place and thinking about it now I would not wanted to live in the flat that we had shared, with good memories and all the bad ones, it would have made it harder for me to get through it all.
It is still very raw for you just now, but it does get easier and it does get better. Lean on God, trust in him, and keep as much family and friends round you as you need to help you keep going.
God bless.
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Mobiosity
American by birth; Southern by the grace of God.
My husband told me 3 weeks ago that he wants a divorce. Our 25th anniversary is a week from tomorrow. I am surrounding myself with loving friends and it's still so hard. I've joined a church and I pray, pray, pray. I know I'll be okay, eventually and so will you.
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kanga22
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I can't drown my sorrows in drink either, or even have one to take the edge off. If you want to talk, PM me.
I can tell you how I'm dealing....
Mostly I'm finding out that I know some caring people who are thrilled to be there for me. You probably know some too, it's just a matter of asking. Diving into my bible and spending a lot of time with God when it was really raw helped tremendously also.
May you receive all of the blessings God has for you today. Sometimes it's a matter of being open to accepting them.
I can tell you how I'm dealing....
Mostly I'm finding out that I know some caring people who are thrilled to be there for me. You probably know some too, it's just a matter of asking. Diving into my bible and spending a lot of time with God when it was really raw helped tremendously also.
May you receive all of the blessings God has for you today. Sometimes it's a matter of being open to accepting them.
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Mobiosity
American by birth; Southern by the grace of God.
May you receive all of the blessings God has for you today. Sometimes it's a matter of being open to accepting them.I can't drown my sorrows in drink either, or even have one to take the edge off. If you want to talk, PM me.
I can tell you how I'm dealing....
Mostly I'm finding out that I know some caring people who are thrilled to be there for me. You probably know some too, it's just a matter of asking. Diving into my bible and spending a lot of time with God when it was really raw helped tremendously also.
May you receive all of the blessings God has for you today. Sometimes it's a matter of being open to accepting them.
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