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I am not clear that such a thing could ever be substantiated. Maybe overlooked candidates believe it.
What do you think when you hear this: 'I was the best qualified but a [black/man/woman/younger/prettier/known-to the-panel*] person was given the post.'
I think - sour grapes.
* circle the one which applies
That's why we shouldn't just assume people are unconsciously racially discriminating.
This is an important point. We have an ongoing example of discriminatory language by members of - of all things - Yorkshire County Cricket Club. A player of Pakistani heritage but born in Yorkshire (a qualification for players at this prestigious and ancient club) has retired and accused the club of racially motivated language. This is almost certainly the use of 'Paki' in what the club dismissed as dressing room banter.
The standard response for 'banter' of this kind goes like this: 'Can't you take a joke?'
[Note that despite the 'banter' he represented the club (and was paid like the rest of the team); he was not discriminated against professionally. He has not suggested that it was more difficult for him to make the first eleven.]
Misconstruing what I said again, taking things to the extreme again, how nice.Then move to N Korea, learn what minority rule is like (it's a minority of 1 there) and lemme know how that works out.
What has this got to do with what I said???Things that deny people equal opportunities and rights by denying the basic dignity of every human being?
Utter nonsense, just you misconstruing again.Great point. If you genuinely believe that, why are you defending racial discrimination?
Misconstruing what I said again, taking things to the extreme again, how nice.
That's not the "only way" to look at it. Different people were brought up in different ways. It's not about making assumptions but giving the benefit of the doubt.The only other real option is called "race essentialism" and that's where we look at race, make assumptions about it, and factor those assumptions into the way we treat people.
I don't think AA is as pervasive as you think it is.It wasn't an explicitly stated advantage. It didn't achieve the magical level of equity people seem to claim to want. There's no real reason to believe this will either. To continue down this path is going to be pretty destructive.
The people I've heard this from were told explicitly that they weren't picked because of diversity quotas. These examples were from back when that reason could be given more openly than it can be now.I am not clear that such a thing could ever be substantiated. Maybe overlooked candidates believe it.
What do you think when you hear this: 'I was the best qualified but a [black/man/woman/younger/prettier/known-to the-panel*] person was given the post.'
I think - sour grapes.
* circle the one which applies
The people I've heard this from were told explicitly that they weren't picked because of diversity quotas. These examples were from back when that reason could be given more openly than it can be now.
I don't have a reason to believe it was blame shifting.Or blame could be shifted more openly than it can be now.
Affirmative Action isn't all about blacks, I wasn't talking even primarily about blacks. I was talking about discriminating against white males in favor of anyone else. Including women.Blacks make up only 13% of the population. Demographics alone show that if every single black person got hired, the impact still can't be over 13% overall. Which Fortune 500 companies are as much as 13% black at any level?
But now, if you start talking about white women, you have a case.
I don't feel you listen.You said you don't want majority rule. I understand the problem with majority rule. I can sit here and describe it in many different ways.
What I don't know is what other alternative that you are proposing? Minority rule? The smallest group should decide?
Stevil" said:I don't accept that a society should be based on majority rules.
For example, I don't consider gay marriage to be something that the people should vote on.
Government should have some limits.
They shouldn't be able to outlaw something, just because the majority wants it outlawed.
They should instead have to prove that something is dangerous to society otherwise they should not be able to stop consenting adults from doing things that don't harm others or society.
That's not the "only way" to look at it. Different people were brought up in different ways. It's not about making assumptions but giving the benefit of the doubt.
I don't feel you listen.
Or blame could be shifted more openly than it can be now.
Blacks make up only 13% of the population. Demographics alone show that if every single black person got hired, the impact still can't be over 13% overall. Which Fortune 500 companies are as much as 13% black at any level?
But now, if you start talking about white women, you have a case.
I don't know the history of that term or how it was used. If it's an incident of racism or not I cannot say.
Do you think people deserve opportunities like college or a job for characteristics like skin color?
I don't have a reason to believe it was blame shifting.
Affirmative Action isn't all about blacks, I wasn't talking even primarily about blacks. I was talking about discriminating against white males in favor of anyone else. Including women.
Well if you are having trouble one should document each situation where you experience something racially motivated.Giving someone the benefit of the doubt that someone else is racially discriminating against them?
How is that any different from assuming that the crime of racial discrimination is happening and just skipping past the whole need for evidence?
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