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I don't think so. It is -possibly - just currently the noisiest in America. The biggest issue by far is racism. We just need to ask the question: which has killed more people; feminism or racism...
One of the best recent performances I have seen at the Royal Shakespeare Stratford was a black actor playing the King in one of the histories (forgotten which - sorry). Theatre is pretending - it turned out audiences could pretend the actor was King just as easily with a black actor in the role.
If racism is the biggest issue, how have white women gotten the biggest bang for the Civil Rights buck?
Whether that works depends, even in a "colorblind" society, depends on the nature of the character. If the story hangs on the character being a particular ethnic culture, someone of the culture should probably play it.
There was a huge row among blacks over light(er)-skinned, narrow-featured Zoe Saldana wearing make-up and prosthetics to play the lead in a Nina Simone biopic precisely because Nina Simone's dark skin and full African features were a critical element her life story.
I see what you mean. When I say someone "like" them I do mean culturally more than racially. I have witnessed what you say firsthand when I worked in the public school system. The Somali kids thought they were superior because they "never were slaves" and the American black kids thought the Somali kids were arrogant. These are just things I heard when I would have to separate them in line. They seemed to feel no connection to each other.But that is culture, not skin tone.
Here is the thing about culture in an example:
Take a bunch of black kids from south Chicago. And some from north Omaha. And some from SE Washington DC. And some from SE Dallas.
Put them into an auditorium to watch a theatrical production of "Romeo and Juliet." Now, "Romeo and Juliet" was written 500 years ago by an Englishman who'd never been 200 miles from the place he was born. It was written before blacks had ever been kidnapped from Africa and brought to America.
Yet, those black kids from black American ghettos will mostly understand Shakespeare's diction. More importantly, they will understand his story. They will get the plot, the motivations of the characters. They will understand what Shakespeare is saying. They'll totally get it. That's because those black ghetto kids share Shakespeare's culture.
Now take those same kids in that auditorium and bring in a griot from Ghana. Have that griot recite to them in Ghanian a 500-year-old Ghanian folk story. First, the kids won't understand the language. And even if you translate the language, they won't get the story. They won't understand the motivations of the characters. They won't get the point. That's because those black ghetto kids do not share that griot's culture.
I can pretty much assure you, there are difference in the way I--as a black man raised in a middle-class setting in southern small towns half a century ago--have some differences in the way I show anger with body language and vocal tone from those kids.
They seemed to feel no connection to each other.
The qualification made here is "in the United States." Why that qualification?
If it's not a truth worldwide, then it can be true in the United States.
If it is a truth worldwide, then it's a common condition of man like any other sin, and can be mitigated by social compact like any other sin.
There is nothing surprising or new about his "interest convergence theory." It's been known for thousands of years that any human transaction, if it is to be successful, must conclude with both parties feeling they have gained something valuable to them. Who expects altruism in this world?
Even the classical hedonists of ancient Greece could understand how keeping the poor from falling too deeply into poverty was in their own long-term interests.
White abolitionists were not motivated by a love of black people, but by a desire to save white souls.
And there's no shame in that. There have been debates in these forums about whether Christian agape is really about some mystically induced, purely altruistic "unconditional love for all mankind" or, rather, a desire for pain avoidance or a desire to hear "well done, my good and faithful servant" one day.
Interest convergence is the essence of all successful human interactions.
I have not yet seen in CRT any steps actually toward or even a view of that brave new world. All I see at this point is the effort to tear down the white male patriarchy, and yet another non-white concept that white radical feminists are running with as another battering ram against the white male patriarchy. But they have not vision beyond that.
I'm a Christian, so ultimately I must strive for reconciliation. Even if I were not a Christian, the fact is that white people aren't going anywhere, black people are not going anywhere, and nobody else is going anywhere, so reconciliation is a practical necessity.
This is a term that has very little use in British English. Whenever I see it - invariably here on these forums - I think there is something mocking or pejorative lurking behind it.
Racism is a real issue everywhere. American society is stained by the legacy of slavery, complicated no doubt by unresolved tensions and hostilities which still reverberate after the Civil War. The UK has a long history of white supremicism (actually in many minds British supremicism) so cannot escape the same judgment.
These problems are more than employment issues; they permeate pretty well all aspects of our cultural lives. I think that while economic issues like employment are important they are very far from the whole. We can discuss them in an academic way and define certain things as racist in a general way till the cows come home, but cannot escape the obvious elephant in the room; overwhelmingly certain easily identified cultural groups live at a disadvantage in our societies.
"Beau of the Fifth Column" in this video has precisely nailed what I've been saying for a while. If a white person says, "You're a hard working guy, we get along well together...I don't see you as black," that means he has a mental image of black people that ignores me as his own first-hand example of a black person.
One easy answer is that racism is a deeper and more urgent issue than feminism in the present day and historically. That is not to denigrate feminism, arising as it does from deep historic issues too. (And actually, maybe the death toll is not so different after all.)
I don't want to start a hare here.
Ironically, that video is a good example of how I see the problem too lol.
Language isn't perfect. It's certainly not perfect at conveying a vague idea. There's at least a couple of ways of interpreting the statement....
"I don't even think of you as black."
Regardless of whatever follows it. I think the statement that follows is...
"I think of you as good and hardworking people just like me".
And I can see why that leads to a negative interpretation of the first statement. Taken that way, he has a negative view of black people in general...but his black friends are so much like him that he doesn't think of them along those negative stereotypes of black people.
I get the interpretation.
He seems to be reading text though, and tone gets lost, so let's consider another interpretation. Language necessarily limits the user based on it's own construction. I used to think that because Christians can't tell me what it's like to feel the presence of god...they weren't really feeling it. I have to at least consider that it's a feeling we don't really have any word for. I happen to think the same thing about claims of "feeling like the opposite gender". I can't really explain "feeling like a man"...unless I associate it with certain physical acts a can do because of my biology. I can't think of any emotion I have that a woman cannot. I have to at least consider that I'm wrong and this is really a limitation of language in describing a vague idea.
So with that in mind, back to the second interpretation we could make about the two sentences...
"I don't even think of them as black. I see them as good hardworking people like me."
He could be saying that because they are so alike him (and he chooses the words good and hardworking to describe this similarity) that he constantly loses consideration of their skin color and, in essence the term black doesn't mean anything more than white does to him.
Do you understand what I mean when I say "he loses consideration of race"? You don't think of race all the time (despite what activists want people to believe). I don't know you, obviously I don't know how often you think about it. I'm simply pointing out situations where you don't think of it at all...maybe you're driving, at home relaxing, any period of time when it doesn't occur to you consider your race in any way.
That's what I mean by "lose consideration for". It's like your pinky finger. You know it's there, you know you have it, but you don't really think of it till it gets slammed in the car door.
Just in case you're sitting there thinking "that's not possible, he has eyes...he sees his friend is black"....I'm not saying that he magically stops seeing skin color. It's the idea that skin color is in any way attached to some kind of larger idea is gone. "Black" as an identity loses meaning. He could be saying that despite their obvious differences in skin color, he stops seeing him as his black friend and now he's just his friend.
That's a possibility, right? Even if you think the beardo has the correct interpretation....there is at least one other interpretation. I'd suggest there's probably multiple interpretations. The term black is both loaded because of the differences in experience....and the lack of clarity.
If I had to guess...and I wouldn't want to...I'd rather be able to ask the person....but if I had to, I think the bearded guy is probably correct in his interpretation. He sees his black friends one way, all other black people another. It could be that he meant the second interpretation that I offered but there's no way to be certain without asking.
Here's where I see the problem, the guy making the video with the beard then takes his personal interpretation of a somewhat ambiguous statement about race...made by a white guy....about his black friends....and while this interpretation isn't the most negative one, he then applies it to the entire society? Or just all white people? Or just some white people? Is he describing systemic racism or it's effects?
I certainly wouldn't see any problem with applying the interpretation of that statement to the guy who made it. If you want to judge him morally for it...eh, I don't even really like judging people by ideas. We can't control thoughts but we can control actions so I try to keep morality confined to behavior and ideas judged by their validity or value.
Anyway, beard guy makes the exact same mistake as the guy he's talking about. He's judged an entire category of people as viewing things a very certain way. That's a wild judgement. It's certainly not a positive view of an entire race of people or honestly any category of people that's going to run in the hundreds of millions.
The error he is committing is twofold....
1. That selective interpretation is factual. You can read Lord of the Flies, I can read Lord of the Flies. We might come away with very similar interpretations or very different ones. We can discuss our perspectives and learn things about the way the other sees things. We can come across interpretations and opinions we had not even considered.
Unless we have the author standing right there and he's able to clearly explain everything to the point of no ambiguity whatsoever....neither of us can really be "correct" in how we interpret the book, characters, motivations, themes, etc.
I'm not saying there's no use in any exchange of perspective or interpretation of meaning. There definitely is. It can teach you a lot about the way someone sees things.
But it isn't fact. It's just his interpretation, and even though I think I generally agree with that interpretation, it still could be wrong. That's the first mistake.
The second mistake is the idea that he can then take his interpretation of one man's very specific and yet somewhat poor description of a way he sees his friend's common humanity in relation to their race and go and apply it generally to a vastly larger number of people? Why??
Even if it wasn't about skin color and it was about a group of people from any common factor....they could all be nuns, asians in pre-school, seniors in a nursing home, or any group of people....why would I imagine they all think the same? Even if I went to N Korea, where what you can say and what you can believe is enforced at gunpoint.....I know that if removed from the social pressure and freed of the fear of reprisal...they'll have different views on stuff.
It's a super common thinking error that was recognized back in at least Julius Caesar's day. It is very easy to imagine that other people see things the same way you do. The reality is that simply isn't the case. The human brain is just a pattern seeking reward based machine...rational thought tends to only briefly show up at the back end of a belief formation as a post hoc explanation and protection of the patterns and schemas that we use to make choices easier, explain our world in ways that are easy to understand and less complex.
Sorry, no, despite all that verbiage, that doesn't work.
No matter how you put it, the guy still has a mental image of "black"--everyone in American society does,
because the issue is constantly in the news--and when he made the statement, he was obviously thinking of his mental image of "black"--and noting that his hardworking black friend does not fit it.
The point is that his mental image of "black" ought to be the person he personally knows.
Sorry, no, despite all that verbiage, that doesn't work.
No matter how you put it, the guy still has a mental image of "black"--everyone in American society does, because the issue is constantly in the news--and when he made the statement, he was obviously thinking of his mental image of "black"--and noting that his hardworking black friend does not fit it.
The point is that his mental image of "black" ought to be the person he personally knows.
Why? It's not as if the black person he knows represents black people in general.
If it was a black person making the same statement....would you interpret it the same way?
He should, if he has no other first-hand example.
You mean a black person telling another black person, "I don't see you as black?"
No black person I know would say that. Even if that other black person "acted white," the response would not be "I don't see you as black."
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