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An unusual Thanksgiving first one without love ones

Softbreeze

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This was a difficult Thanksgiving. I lost my husband this year in May and lost my niece in January of this year. A lot of tears and emotions. We had a wonderful day with a lot of family and food. It was our first holiday without both of them. It was very strange because the both of them left a big impression on all of us. Both of them were so outgoing. Showed so much care for other people. Has anyone else had unusual thanksgiving, loss of love one?
 

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After my father died there was a whole year of holidays, birthdays, anniversaries and other special days without him. Each one is difficult and a little bit of a challenge.
He too was very outgoing. It does leave a hole in life for many people.

I am so sorry for your loss. I pray that you find comfort and peace.
 
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Thank you for your support. Its such a new experience for me. I have never lost anyone close until this year. This will be a first for me. First for holidays and first lose. I sometimes wonder what makes someone hold on and just make it through without breaking down or getting ups when the holidays come? This christmas is really going to be a challenge.
 
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