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Am I Still A Virgin?

alexislemons

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Its hard telling people this because i am so ashamed, but this summer, i have snuck out on multiple occasions to see a guy. We did everything except intercourse. It also hurts that within a day of this, he started going back out with his ex. I just don't know what to do and if i can even call myself a virgin anymore. someone help, please:///
 

gb123

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If you have not had intercourse then you are still a virgin. Since you haven't, you're still a virgin.

Don't worry. Every once in a while, hormones and puberty not helping, some silly person will come along in school bragging that he or she had sex. 99% of the time they are lying. You'll find that the vast majority of people don't have sex until much older, not your age.

You have made a mistake. But we all do. Pray to God for forgiveness and be truly sorry, and he will forgive you, as he loves you. Good luck, I hope I helped.
 
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E-LO

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To be pure is in your heart,You do need to confess what you did was wrong,physically you are a virgin,but really you have shown somebody what was meant for your future husband,it is a mistake but you gotta admit and stay pure,dont settle for what you think is gonna make you feel good,trust me honey I know.
Because one day when you get married your gonna have to confess everything to your husband and him to you and if it really is love then it will only help you draw closer to confess,but it hurts like the burning place to have to say that.Dont settle.
That pain you feel is conviction,why dont you try drawing closer to God before man.then it will be so beautiful...
 
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