Am I Losing It?

[.Sabre.]

I found a buddy on here and we used to speak alot. Henceforth I shall refer to him as Captain Obvious to protect his identity.

I'm apparently losing it as I keep getting so concerned about him as he and I are both oversensitive people...I worry about him all the time as he keeps talking about death. I keep messaging him but I'm being snubbed. I've tried waiting it out but it won't help. He has blocked me on MSN. I don't know why as he won't give me a chance to reason it out with him. Please help me.

 

[sinneD]

I found a buddy on here and we used to speak alot. Henceforth I shall refer to him as Captain Obvious to protect his identity.

I'm apparently losing it as I keep getting so concerned about him as he and I are both oversensitive people...I worry about him all the time as he keeps talking about death. I keep messaging him but I'm being snubbed. I've tried waiting it out but it won't help. He has blocked me on MSN. I don't know why as he won't give me a chance to reason it out with him. Please help me.

You are 17. How old is he ?

When you say he keeps talking about death, what does that mean? Has he indicated suicide, or is he simply talking about death?

While it is good to be concerned about people, perhaps you are becoming a little obsessed with it ?

In any event, if he is blocking you, he obviously doesn't want to discuss it, and there really isn't much you can do other than pray for him..

 

[saraharms1]

You're not losing it. You obviously are a careing person weather you know the person online or in real life. Right now all you can really do is pray and hope. Maybe send him encourageing e-mails. Let him know that you're not giving up on him. Let him know that you're still there and not going anywhere.
Since he blocked you on MSN why don't you try making a new account and try talking to him on there? Just a suggestion.


Hope I helped


~:~Sarah~:~

 

[UnitynLove]

You're not losing it. You obviously are a careing person weather you know the person online or in real life. Right now all you can really do is pray and hope. Maybe send him encourageing e-mails. Let him know that you're not giving up on him. Let him know that you're still there and not going anywhere.
Since he blocked you on MSN why don't you try making a new account and try talking to him on there? Just a suggestion.


Hope I helped


~:~Sarah~:~

Agreed.

 

[Anti Existance]

Basically you should only send him 1 e-mail, telling him that he should seek a counceller and professional help.

This because your aren't a qualified specialist who knows who to deal with suicidal people, if you did give him this warning e-mail, then you did everything you possibly could ,and then should just leave him alone,while respecting his choice that he doesn't wish to make contact with you. You might be oversensitive, but you need to know where to draw the line.

 

[.Sabre.]

Thanks anyway. I did make a new account and I think he knows it's me. I'm really hoping that I don't appear psychotic.

 

[Lisa0315]

Honey, I hate to break it to you, but this guy has a girlfriend, and she has caught him. That is the ONLY reason he would abruptly cut you off without telling you why.

Lisa

 

[AWorkInProgress]

I found a buddy on here and we used to speak alot. Henceforth I shall refer to him as Captain Obvious to protect his identity.

I'm apparently losing it as I keep getting so concerned about him as he and I are both oversensitive people...I worry about him all the time as he keeps talking about death. I keep messaging him but I'm being snubbed. I've tried waiting it out but it won't help. He has blocked me on MSN. I don't know why as he won't give me a chance to reason it out with him. Please help me.

Sounds like porkypine's dilema. Problem hits him turns into a ball and sticks his quills out, but he wonder whys no one seems to love him.

Send him last note saying you are there if he needs you. Leave your door open and keep praying. Something he has to overcome. Can't force it on him or his quills will stick out again.

Most likely has very low selfesteam and he doesn't want people to see his true side. I know I did the same.

Also don't worry about him too much, have to put it in God's hands and be ready to do your part.

 

[UnitynLove]

I will continue to pray for him.