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Alright, I feel I just HAVE TO ask this question...

Living4Him03

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Women can "seduce" guys too into doing sexual things the guy is not willing to do. One of my friends tries to seduce just about any guy she can into sleeping with her and even tries it on guys she knows are Christians who are waiting until they are married! It's frustrating.

You know what? I wish we as Christians (and the society as a whole too) could try to get back to God's original design for sex. It's supposed to be within marriage. It's supposed to be a beautiful thing that is neither exclusively physical or exclusively an emotional bonding type of thing. I hate how we even have to have discussions about things like women not having as much desire for sex as men and how we are all just so confused. I honestly don't think God meant for it to be like this!

Originally, I wonder about Adam and Eve and how much they desired to have sex? I'm sure it was probably often and they didn't think of it as a bad thing at all. I bet it was awesome for both of them! However, when sin entered the picture things probably got ugly.

Girls aren't raised to be open about sex. We are taught that guys think about sex and that thinking about sex a lot is a guy thing. Also, we don't really even get to know our bodies or how they work very well until way too late.

The disparities between the sexes about sex is about society and sin, simply put. I wish all the married people out there could just learn to communicate and love one another and have lots of wonderful sex.
 
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This is the best post in this whole thread!
 
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Amen, you have much wisdom.
 
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As a person who has posted personal ads in the secular and Christian sites (now I prefer only Christian sites) I have to say that I've been known to use phrases like "perverts need not apply" because it seems that many guys (unfortunately some who even claim to be Christian) will pretty much pursue the woman for the sake of a shallow, physical relationship. I would rather wait until marriage (since that IS the right thing to do!) even though I am a divorcee. By telling a man upfront not to get his hopes up that his pants will come down is just a way for me to hopefully be able to weed out the creeps.

As for your question about a woman's desire....I think that is a stereotype. I have female friends who want it more than their husbands (according to them anyway).
 
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