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Advice to yourself...

~Wisdom Seeker~

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22smsbears said:
If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice...What would it be and why?!
Advise I wish I could go back and give myself at your age, You're 22 right? Would be... If you have to force it to happen, it isn't meant to be.

But at 22...I wouldn't have listened to someone in their 40's anyway.

I think that's why parents have such a tough time with their kids. They want to spare them going through what they've already gone through. Because they know it will cause them pain.

But in order to grow, you kind of have to glean from your own experiences. That's just how it works. Sorry.
 
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22smsbears said:
If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice...What would it be and why?! (if it needs explaining)

To continually put the question "What will matter in 5, 10, 100 years from now?', before i made any decisions and choices. The reality is that the gospel of Jesus Christ is what really matters above everything else. This comes before my disappointment in not finishing school, going to uni, having a great career etc. This life is a shadow of eternal things to come. I like my worldy comforts just as much as the next, but i use the above question to try to put things into perspective in this life.:wave:
 
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