Accountabilty partners - does this actually work?

[Lemmiwinks]

I've had accountability partners but it didn't help, I'd get together and they'd ask Did you look at porn or touch? and I'd say Yes! and they'd say well that's not good! Well, what do you want me to say?

Every week they'd ask the same question and every week I'd say I failed, so it just seemed silly after a while.

I don't really understand the concept of how having an accountability partner is supposed to change your behavior.

 

[Rocklee]

I've had accountability partners but it didn't help, I'd get together and they'd ask Did you look at porn or touch? and I'd say Yes! and they'd say well that's not good! Well, what do you want me to say?

Every week they'd ask the same question and every week I'd say I failed, so it just seemed silly after a while.

I don't really understand the concept of how having an accountability partner is supposed to change your behavior.

Maybe you need to meet up more, I think it is an excellent idea!

In fact I think because we have accept a new role as Christians we need to understand our responsibilities, we can't have such a shaky foundation if we want to lead the world!

I think maybe its how you guys address the issue that might have to change. Talk about the week, goals, plans, anything to keep your mood interested, busy, purposeful.

 

[Johnnz]

Its helpful, workable advice people need. Some partners can do that well. Other's can't.

John
NZ

 

[Criada]

It can work well, but you and your partner need to talk about what triggered the behaviour and how you can avoid those triggers. It takes time, but admitting there is a problem is a big first step. Try to find a partner who is willing to really work with you.