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I been saved for over 12 years. I am in my thirties. I was in a abusive marriage. Then he left me. If it wasn't for my parents and Jesus I would be on the streets right now. I thank God for them. I been wondering if my husband could have been saved due to his behavior, lack of commitment, and violence towards me. I feel so alone. He really hurt me by leaving. I thought we could work it out but he sees no point to that. He emptied my savings and took all I had. So I guess the reason he doesn't want to get conseling is the fact that he can't get anything else he wants from me. The other day I saw his profile on aol and it said single and other stuff. He is still a married manand this has been so painful for me. Please pray for me that I stay strong during this time.
 

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You need to be getting yourself some counseling. You have been through some very tramatic situations and you need the help of someone else as you attempt to sort out and decide how you want to go on with your life. Many chruches offer counseling, through pastors or therapists. Please look into that.
 
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mysaviorreighns said:
I been saved for over 12 years. I am in my thirties. I was in a abusive marriage. Then he left me. If it wasn't for my parents and Jesus I would be on the streets right now. I thank God for them. I been wondering if my husband could have been saved due to his behavior, lack of commitment, and violence towards me. I feel so alone. He really hurt me by leaving. I thought we could work it out but he sees no point to that. He emptied my savings and took all I had. So I guess the reason he doesn't want to get conseling is the fact that he can't get anything else he wants from me. The other day I saw his profile on aol and it said single and other stuff. He is still a married manand this has been so painful for me. Please pray for me that I stay strong during this time.
My husband did he same exact thing to me and he goes on with his life as if I never existed. We had been seperated for less than a month when he filed for divorce, and says his life is better without me. It hurts very much, but for 9 years he never did treat me right to begin with, but I stayed because he was my husband and I would never give up the hope that he would change, but he only got more abusive and more hateful towards me and it got to where I had to hide from him to avoid upsetting him, but no matter what I tried to do for him he was never happy. I pray for you and hope that God gives you all the strength..please pray for me also.
 
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