A step in the right direction...

[Justasimplea]

I want to do things right. I need to forgive my brother and move on with no judgement. Easier said that done... but it needs to be done. Had a meeting were we needed to be on the same page and spoke again to one another. It was so awkward. But after that nothing was said. We have so much coming up this month with our youth and we need to move on. I don't know how to approach it or him. He is very stubborn as am I. Man it's almost gonna be a week....

 

[Sam91]

Grace. Act towards him with grace. If he doesn't melt continue with the grace. You aren't responsible for his actions just yours. You can't blame him for your emotional response to his actions or lack of, that's your responsibility.

If you deal with yourself and act right to him you can do nothing more. Treat him with the traits of 1 Corinthians 13. Then you shall be beyond reproach and you can pray with ease. Hope that is helpful?

 

[Sam91]

I listened to some good sermons on forgiveness. They blessed me. I have forgiven extreme things this year.

They are by Charles Stanley, In touch ministries:

The blame game Part 1
The blame Game Part 2
Anger and Forgiveness Part 1
Anger and forgiveness Part 2

Then how to deal when people get you angry:
How to deal with Anger. Part 1
How to deal with anger. Part 2

If you google his name, intouch ministries and the sermons name in the search bar you should find the correct sermons. They are only 20 something minutes long and stay with you. Really helped me understand the process of forgiveness.

 

[faroukfarouk]

I listened to some good sermons on forgiveness. They blessed me. I have forgiven extreme things this year.

They are by Charles Stanley, In touch ministries:

The blame game Part 1
The blame Game Part 2
Anger and Forgiveness Part 1
Anger and forgiveness Part 2

Then how to deal when people get you angry:
How to deal with Anger. Part 1
How to deal with anger. Part 2

If you google his name, intouch ministries and the sermons name in the search bar you should find the correct sermons. They are only 20 something minutes long and stay with you. Really helped me understand the process of forgiveness.

Adrian Rogers did similar sermons as well; maybe you know them.