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A bit confused:S

KrazyPhish

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When I was 12 I was staying the night at my pony club because I had a 1 day event the next day and had to get my horse ready quite early the next day. Any way before I went to my cabin where the other kids who were staying the night were, I went in to the tack room (a room in a stables where you store horse riding equipment) to get something. The manager of the pony club (who also happened to live in one of the houses on the pony club land) was in there putting stuff away, I knew quite well and we just talking, then he started joking around and tickling me, then he turned me around and well… slapped me on my bum couple of times, on the last time the he did it he kind of left his hand there a little too long and squeezed a bit :S. I didn’t realise at the time that this wasn’t right, but somehow something just clicked in my head I left right away.
I never thought about it again for 3 years, until my friend went to the police because he had touched her breast -2other girls I know went forward as well, saying that he had touched them too. He confessed that he had touched all 3 of them and he eventually went to prison for it.

I never told any one what happened to me, because I’m unsure of what it was. Did he molest me too?
 

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Hi KrazyPhish,

What he did was very wrong- it is harrassment. Laws can be
pretty severe against it. . .

If he wasn't already put away for what he did, I'd recommend
you report him. Anytime that happens in a public facility (or
privately) it should be reported.

Please don't feel shamed, HE was wrong.
 
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