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3 mos not smoking

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BTW are those your birds at the bottom? Can they talk? We had a budgie once that could talk under water with marbles in his mouth! He was beautiful.
Yes they are budgies or parakeets. They are Lenny and Joey. One is 6 and the other is 4. Lenny used to talk a little before I got Joey then he got more attached to Joey than me and stopped talking. But we are one little happy family.
 
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Congrats on the 3 months.

I am working on 10 days right now and I am doing the cold turkey method.

Stay strong and good luck!!
Good for you. I hope things work out well for you. My first time quitting I went cold turkey,
too, and quit for 16.5 years.
 
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I have had problems breaking this barrier 90 days and out for me--are you guys still struggling with the habit? For me the habit is worse than the addiction. When the seasons change---I tend to relapse... Other than the patch and gum what other tools or tricks to do use to get through it?
 
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Yeah 3 months is a biggie in a lot things. I am not sure how I made it this time. I guess I just let it go and stopped thinking about it and slowly as time went by it got easier. I am now at the stage of 7 months and over so it can be done. Just keep trying - it will work one day soon just don't quit on your quitting lol!
 
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