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Testimony to Faith/Kraigs potential healing

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Blindfaith

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We received the Christmas letter from our friends today, and after discussing it with a couple of Mod's, it was determined that it would be appropriate to post it here.  I was concerned about the intimacy and privacy, but it's such an unbelievable testimony of faith and love from the wife (Diane), about God and her relationship with Kraig, it's almost too important not to post.  I hope that this encourages others in their faith in our Lord Jesus Christ as it will me when I get past the hurt and pain;

 

HOLIDAY BLESSINGS TO ALL OUR FRIENDS & FAMILY!

We pray this Christmas greeting finds all of you in health and happiness!  As most of you know....2002 has been a year filled with blessings and an intense search for blessings not yet understood.  If that confuses some, let me try to explain...and I must aplogize to some who may not know the most recent update; however, since you are receiving this letter, you are special to our family.  As friends/family, we share each other's happiness and somoetimes must face sorrows and challenges together....

Our greatest joy and blessing this year was the birth of our daughter, Ashlyn Grace, on August 23rd!  She was and still is a beautiful and happy baby.  On the opposite end of the spectrum, our family continues to wait on the belssings to come through Kraig's cancer diagnosis on August 11th.  Our faith and emotions have been tested to their limits and we continue the fight.  Kraig has an advanced Level 4 colon cancer, which has spread to his liver and bones (mostly to his spine, ribs and pelvic bones).  We have experienced so many emotional highs and lows through his treatments and doctor visits.  On November 26th, we were informed that the treatments are still not being effective and that the cancer has and is growing very aggressively, and we are running out of treatment options.  Our local doctor told us he doesn't expect Kraig to live with us on earth  much past January or February, but of course only God knows.  We continue to pray and seek God's healing.  On December 17th, we are going to The Cancer Treatment Center of America in Tulsa, OK to pursue "alternative options/treatments:.  Yet, we bear the great task of preparing as if Kraig may soon be joining our Lord.  This has truly been agonizing, but somehow God gives us the strength in the midst of our tears.  As we wait on God's will, we also pray that God show us the lessons we are to  learn through this and pray that somehow, we can glorify Him.
 

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Words can not express our gratitude for all your prayers, encouragement and support during this very difficult time.  So many friends and family members have also blessed us with their help through meals, babysitting and driving our kids places or us.  We will never be able to thank you enough!  As a wise friend of mine expressed, the most any of us can do is to bring Kraig before the Lord on our knees.  Many ask us for specific prayer needs....We pray for healing!  We pray God has plans for Kraig and I as a couple and with our family here on earth.  We also pray Kraig's neck and spine hold strong to avoid paralysis.  We pray Kraig gets relief from occassional intense leg pain.  We pray for strength, courage and peace for our entire family.  We pray that no matter what the outcome, we may bring glory to God.  We pray for God's leading in how to handle this with our children and ask for constant prayer for our kids.  Should the Lord desire Kraig home in heaven, we pray for a beautiful and painless passing on his "heavenly birthday."  I pray prayers of thanksgiving for the 15 years I have been blessed with Kraig (11-1/2 as his wife).  Some nights, I can only pray two simple prayers:  "Lord, help me to trust you" ad "Show me your glory".

I want to tell each of you, what a true example and living testament Kraig has been through all of this!  His love for the Lord a faith are unshakable, and I have never been more proud of him or honored to be his wife.  He is an amazing God warrior, even through all the treatments, pain and constant bad news.  He blesses all those around him with his positive attitude, strenth, courage and peace.

 

more........
 
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As for me, I have to remind myself that Kraig is first and foremost, God's child.  I selfishly pray and plead desperately that God heals him for me and the kids, but who am I to tell God that we should get Kraig and not Him.  We both know that God can heal Kraig in an instant if that is his will, but that is the unknown......what is God's will?  I keep praying that God WOW this world and the doctors with His miracle of healing, but God doesn't always choose to heal and only He knows the bigger picture and purpose.  My small mind cannot yet comprehend what the good and blessings are and are yet to come if God wants Kraig home.  But if God needs Kraig more in heaven than here on earth, I thank him for the blessings that Kraig has given me and taught me I pray God gives me strength and peace if I am to help Kraig return to our Lord.  I pray I may be a blessing to Kraig and bring God glory no matter what the outcome.

Even in the midst of all this, we still find joy and fun in our daily lives.  Our boys and new baby girl are of course our biggest blessing.
 
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BF.. you are correct... reading this shows me how weak I am myself. I see how they are taking it and I am ashame of my own weakness. They have accepted it.. I won't accept it. I still cry out to God.. WHY?? WHY him Lord? I wouldn't wish something like that on my worst emeny.
I will continue to lift that family AND YOU in Prayers.. :pray:


Buggy :angel:
 
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Thank you Buggy, my very special friend, for responding.

I just talked with hubby on the phone, and told him that Diane is truly the epitomy of a strong Christian woman to me.&nbsp;

Would I react as she's reacting?&nbsp; I don't really think so.&nbsp; This is such a powerful testimony to faith, that I wish more people were interested in reading it, because we could learn something invaluable here.&nbsp; It's God's purpose, I truly believe.

There has to be some sense made out of this insanity.

I, too, am weak Buggy. :cry:
 
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Such an awesome testimony.

I'd be keeping that one, possibly framing it for reminder....

Anyway, it seems to me that even though they are going through this valley, God has granted that peace that passes all understanding.

If only we could see the big picture but we can only see a part.

Will continue prayers & you continue the updates.

The Holy Spirit provides in these desperate times of need.

I'm sure that these people at one time felt just as we do as far as questioning our reactions to these types of situations.

I've got to say, I can't help but be impressed with how they are relying on God.
 
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Wow, blindfaith. This entire family has amazed me. What a strong woman Kraig's wife is. It is most definitely evident where their faith lies. What a humbling letter for me - I wish I could say that I would be able to send the same letter if I were in that situation...

Praying fervently...praying for healing...praying for peace...praying for comfort...praying for His Will to be done ulitmately...
 
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What an amazing letter! I just hope I could be such a strong witness if the same circumstances were placed in my life. Continuing to pray for Kraig and his family. I pray for an earthly healing but also knowing that God may choose an eternal healing for Kraig. It is one of those situations where I just have to accept that God knows best even though I truly do not understand.

Thanks for sharing, blindfaith!
 
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Originally posted by blindfaith
Thank you all for his prayers everyone!!

Quaff, thanks for reading the testimony :)

Along with you fine folks here, there's quite the prayer chain going for Kraigs full&nbsp;healing from this horrible, deadly disease.&nbsp; Not only for that, but for Diane and the babies.

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And here we are Praying without Ceasing. :pray:


Buggy :angel:
 
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