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12 minutes difference between 2 post, "breaking point" and "healed from bipolor" when I posted this, there was 3 veiws on the first I mentioned, 57 on the other, 2 responses on the first, 12 on the other.

can someone explain the reason why 1 has got so much more attention than the other, with only 12 minutes difference in posting times? I am not trying to start debate, I hate confrontation, I don't get it, I don't even know why I noticed such details. Thanks, William
 

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I can only speak for myself. I came in and read the new posts I saw, including the healed one and checked out. Only to return this am to see that my dear friend goobersmooch had posted after I left.

btw, I am becoming convinced that one of the commonalities with bp is attention to details and perfectionism, perhaps we should call it a form of hypervigilance!!! :)
 
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Morning William :wave:

It's times like this...that I am actually grateful I'm a little :confused: at the best of times :D

I do ask though, since you definately are a 'detailed personality', if you ever find one of my posts 'out of touch' you'd let me know. Sometimes I enter something, leave it, and when I return...I wish I could delet it.

Does this request make sense?

:hug: s & :prayer: s,
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12 minutes difference between 2 post, "breaking point" and "healed from bipolor" when I posted this, there was 3 veiws on the first I mentioned, 57 on the other, 2 responses on the first, 12 on the other.

can someone explain the reason why 1 has got so much more attention than the other, with only 12 minutes difference in posting times? I am not trying to start debate, I hate confrontation, I don't get it, I don't even know why I noticed such details. Thanks, William
All of us are looking to chase that elusive cure. Especially me. I want to be cured. But I did look at both updates.

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Ah covina I notice stuff like that too. There are so many people that just pop into a forumn see something that catches their eye click on it and then leave. It probably wasn't us regulars just passerby's. Just a thought. Perhaps I am feeling optomistic a bit. But maybe...
Another thought...one was a quick read with only a little text the other had a long paragraph...those passerby's don't want to take the time to read long posts. But I understand why it might be upsetting.
 
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Ah covina I notice stuff like that too. There are so many people that just pop into a forumn see something that catches their eye click on it and then leave. It probably wasn't us regulars just passerby's. Just a thought. Perhaps I am feeling optomistic a bit. But maybe...
Another thought...one was a quick read with only a little text the other had a long paragraph...those passerby's don't want to take the time to read long posts. But I understand why it might be upsetting.

This fits my thoughts on this thread perfectly :)

:hug: s & :prayer: s,
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