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seperation

  1. I want to fight for my marriage...she doesn't.

    I have been a stay-at-home dad for the most part of the last 8 years for our 3 adopted kids. My wife has been the one working hard for the paycheck to support our family. For many years now I have had, what I now realize as, an addiction to shopping. Buying tools, electronics, etc... I would...
  2. H

    I Cant Be Financially Attached To You Anymore

    Since being married we have had some financial issues mainly my mishandling funds. The last straw came when I lost our rent money gambling. Yes I gambled. I never did this before. Fact is my wife packed and moved out she has been living with her mom for 34 days. The day before our aniversery...
  3. T

    Is Separating Biblical?

    Greeting Brothers and Sisters in Christ: Forgive me for this being VERY long and thank you in advance for those who take the time to answer their sibling in Christ :) . Please no bashing as I am a sinner too who also takes 50% accountability for my marital conflict. God is righteous and I too...
  4. W

    My husband wants to seperate

    Over a period of time the intimacy stopped. My husband would sleep in the guest bedroom bc he snores loud, drinks, and comes to bed much later than I do. Eventually this became an every night thing. He said he would go to the doctor to find out why he was snoring so badly but he never did. He...
  5. F

    I think its time to go home

    Hi Folks, My wife and I gave our hearts and lives to Jesus back in the early part of the 1980's. We married a few years before in 1976. What followed was an amazing blessed life, a whole lot of Love, an adopted child that gave us years of joy. <staff edit> I was always discovering little...
  6. The deafening silence of abuse

    Here I am One Billion Pieces With a heart made of scar tissue No one sees, but God No one feels, but Jesus No one understands, but Spirit For all the times he screamed at me For all the times he laid his hands on me or our things For all the times he was downright mean to the children For all...
  7. M

    My Husband Won't Stop Lying

    Okay, so bare with me. This is a long one. My husband and I have been married for a little over a year. When we married, we were both born again Christian's (I rededicated my life after walking away and he accepted Christ). We abstained from sex and courted for 8 months before our wedding even...