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  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.

physical appearance

  1. Brendan1129

    Desperate for relationship adivce

    Hi, I am extremely desperate for advice. I had been dating a wonderful girl for a little over a year (I'm 24 now), and I've had a reacurring issue pretty much since we started dating. I'm not super attracted to her physically or sexually. Like hardly at all. I don't find her body type appealing...
  2. M

    It is not who you date, it is who you marry?

    Online dating is something that I was thinking about getting into. I have no experience with it at all. Also, I am afraid that too much weight will be placed on appearance alone when going into online dating. For anyone that has tried it before, what are the pitfalls that come with appearance...
  3. S

    Husband unhappy with my stomach

    Hi! I'm hoping for some insight. My husband has repeatedly told me he'd like me to lose fat on my stomach. I very much wish I could honor this request, but I have two impediments: 1. According to our scale, I weigh 127 pounds. At 5'9”, that puts me at a BMI of just under 19. My doctor has told...