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long distance relationship

  1. J

    Lust in long distance relationship

    I've been dating this guy for a half a year now online. We haven't met yet but.. we're planning on it soon. The thing is, a lot of strong sexual urges have become a huge problem in our relationship. It's really taking a toll on both of us in our own spiritual walks. Every time I engage in a...
  2. pen_and_poetry

    Advice for long-distance relationship

    edited for privacy.
  3. J

    Married and Long Distance - how to maintain intimacy?

    Hello, I am a little unsure on how to approach this. I am a UK citizen and my wife a US citizen. We got married a little over a month ago. We met in college and dated for many years before we finally got married. A good portion of our time dating was long distance. Due to our circumstances, we...
  4. Termikile

    Hi, I'm fairly new to forums

    Hi, I am Termikile. I have never really used forums unless you count Reddit. I enjoy video production/streaming, fishing, cooking, and the outdoors overall. I am in a LDR with a girl from the Philippines. We've been together for over a year now too. I am also currently in school to become a...
  5. Arielle Hernandez

    Long Distance Relationships?

    Hello everyone! I'm just curious, what do you all think about romantic relationships that run long distances? More specifically, how do you think a couple in that kind of relationship should operate, especially for two Christians? What are your opinions on relationships that have started online...
  6. Dolally

    Lots of prayers

    A prayer for my grandmother, who raised me as her own, dueling with cancer that has spread, and for the emotional toll it is having on the rest of my family who have just lost another good woman to cancer. A prayer for my aunt, who is taking care of her alongside her twin daughters while...
  7. Joyfuliness

    Need direction and discernment for LDR

    I am dating long distance again, this time it is different! The guy came down to meet me, we had an roadtrip together and with a one of my friends. It was for about 5 days, it was a blast, we didnt get tired of each other, and we got along well, we hardly show any intimacy though like we didnt...
  8. R

    Long distance relationship woes?

    I have posted about this guy before. Since then we have become exclusive and he just visited me for the 1st time. I cannot stamp out this feeling of disconnect (when apart) which to me is more then the miles btw us. I felt this way shortly before I ended my 1st serious relationship, where we...
  9. Joyfuliness

    Dating Long Distance help!

    So about a month ago, i dated a guy for about a week from a christian dating website. It was a long distance relationship. I really felt like we had chemistry and such, like it was easy to talk to him, and he was understanding and we had similar interests but then he rushed, for the first few...
  10. Yoan

    I need advice, prayers, and encouragements

    I met my bf online and it might seem not serious but if was very serious. I am from Indonesia and he is in the UK and we are both christians. He needed to finish uni which was supposed to be early May and graduation in July. Then, the plan was for me to go over there on a visitor's visa for 6...