put on your mascara then your eye shadow you might want to try to use a mascara that has a smaller brush. the bigger brushes tend to get mascara all over the place
I pluck mine myself the whole arch thing is hard to do but once you get them done professionaly you should just pluck the strays so that they stay neat.
I am mixed with hispanic as well you should try marengae its a little less sexual salsa was created just for that reason salsa is a very sexual type of dancing.