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i have logged in to check pm's only but saw this thread and wanted to say that you should respect other peoples lifestyle choices. how would youj feel if if people were like 'being catholic is sinful, we should stand against them having a forum for being fake christians/' i know you;d hate it...

Sigh. Anbother missed point.

And hense why I am leaving. I ask a genuine question and instead of being given an answer, I get these kind of snarky replies.

It is true though. Look how many people are best frineds in high school, go to college and be roomates and then NEVER want to talk to each other again after about six months.

Thank you for the find wishes. They mean a lot.

How are you meant to know if you can live with someone until you do live with someone? Maybe you want to marry someone and then you do and live with thema nd realise it was a mistake, and then you can't get divroced. It makes no sense.

I have tried to see it another way, but I can't. I jsut can't.

Before I leave, what is so evil about pointing out that it is Crystal's day? Because it is - she is the one who worked really hard to graduate high school and she should be honored on her day for it. You shouldn't be choosing a boyfrined at 18, you shouod be choosing your parents. Parents are...

I just can't. I am sorry. I know I was never liked or appreciated around here, but I can't believe this any longer. I can't believe in a loving god who sends good people to hell. I can't believe in a God who thinks that controlling your own destiny is wrong. I can't believe in a god that hates...

Because all the protests at abortion clinics I have seen have been little more than people screaming at the poor women that they are horrible murderers and other assorted things.

No, I am worried that some of thise advice is going to turn Crystal on her parents because that is what some people are absically telling her to do.

I am not trying to say that, I am trying to say that I don't want to see Crystal at the pont where she has to choose and then might find her marriage doesn't work out and has nor elationship with her parents. There needs to be a way where she can have her relationship with both Ben and her...

I know I will be in the minority there, but I don't think people should be around these clinics ahrassing women. They are already scared, emotional and vulnerble and having people screaming at her will not help.

I am not trying to do that, it is jsut that I come from a culture where I have seen many of these 'shotgun' marriages and they don't work, so I am jsut worried and don't want it to permanantly damage Crystal's relationship with her parents.

So? They still get to do it. They don't havr to be pregnant, they don't have to deal with the stigma, they can just run. The prodecure is getting done next week for a variety of reasons, including medical.

Havn't read it but I am glad you are feeling happy Shannon!

I understand, but at the same time, the last thing needed in this situation is another baby. If my mother had another pregnancy right in the midst of her post natal depression, it wouldn't have been good for her.

Well last time I checked, it is CRYSTAL'S graduation - CRYSTAL is the one graduatiing form high school, not CKRYSTALANDBEN graduating from high school. CRYSTAL. Therefore, she jsut needs to say to both her parents and Ben that it is HER day, as in, CRYSTAL'S day and they all need to be on...

But it can be a curse when you don't want it. You don't feel blessed when it is the last thing you want. But itnis true you know - if the guy cna run away, why can't the woman?

The man is also under a lot of stress and may not be coping as well. Fathers can also get depression at this time which can maker them act really out of character.