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posponed before... it was sort of due to admin reasons, but yeah. i'm suffering. i feel stressed all the time. i have to make the final arrangements for the wedding purely because people have to book accomodation (have to send invites etc.) sarah loves me. i might be more scared to hurt her...

My first thought was "nothing like the next one to get you over the previous one", but that sounds like a (wo)man-eater. I wouldn't do it myself, but if you get desperate try to spend time with other girls. It might help. Let us know how you're doing.

Good going. I was in a similar situation and I couldn't stomach to leave her... So it remains to be seen if we will last or not. :confused:

Hi Its been a while. Since I was here last we sort of sorted out some things... or maybe we just let it be. I didn't become Jewish and she stayed Jewish. Her parents have accepted that we would get married like this and mine as well. I feel we just ignored the things we couldn't fix, but I...

I'm worried & don't know if my wedding in 2 months would be the right thing or not. Very worried. We just fight too much, but in good times things go well. I think we're just too different. I'm a PC nerd and she can't entertain herself. We disagree about things. I don't know - anyway the full...

I believe this is the case, but I would like a verse for this if you have it. Thanks. (She complains that you should not pray through someone to God. I told her I don't really. I would like to have the reference to show her. ...even though she doesn't believe in the New Testament... at...

Thanks. Remember that I'm not asking anything from her. She's the one that's been asking that I become Jewish. The rest of what you said made sense and I will and do leave the decision up to God. I prayed that the decision be made for me because I cannot trust myself with a decision like...

That is probably a better idea, yes. With it being posted here it would make it possible for others to participate as well. Thanks. Hope some printouts get there...

This was a mail. If its not allowed here :scratch: I guess it would be deleted, but its a very valid request I feel. Very sad. Help if you can. :help: :pray: I generally don't like any 'please forward' mail, but I though I should air it here... if some people might be able to contribute to...

Since we last spoke... She sort of accepts that I would remain Christian and that we would move away to the coast because we both like it there and because we would like to (in the back of our minds, or maybe not so much in the back sometimes) get away from the restrictions. She could be...

I was pick on now and then as a kid as well, but I don't think it compared. I didn't like school. I was the odd one out until almost final year when I was just about a regular. That was nice. Just to be one of the crowd. At college I got picked on as well. Sometimes you just stand out and poeple...

Hi again. We have succesfully ignored the issue for another few weeks. It still pops up and I think the popping up would become more frequent and more serious from now on. She said she needs 'time-out' to decide 'once and for all'. She said this before, but no real 'time-out' has happened...

One more thing I might mention. Her best friend and possibly biggest influence is a girl named Ingrid. Ingrid is 'sort-of Christian'. If she would find certainty and true faith it would really help a great deal in her influence towards Sarah as well. Thanks.

Now and then the reality (would like to call it possibility rather) dawns on me that I might have to leave her for real. Have I mentioned that she is the happiness in my life? Do you read the above sentence and comprehend? Happiness - what it feels like when you feel good. Before her I...

Without sounding unthankful I don't know Pat Roberson and I only listen to what is in the Bible. Thereby I'm not saying that he is wrong, but the picture painted did not feel right to me. See the referance below and be VERY careful (again not you personally :) ) to judge people. I've heard the...

At least it seems the tax would option be corrected as a clean slate thing. We would not have to pay back. Pheew. Maybe I should mention that it may sound admirable the way I am prepared to leave her for this. I probably would, but I might struggle to stand firm in the future and I am nothing...

Mixed feelings. Something else happened and that almost made me want to break it off. I thought this thing was quite serious, but I'm prepared to let it slide, for a while at least. It upset me so much I took leave for a day. Later she also suggested that I should convert and then just...

Yes. I have. I would probably go that route if it comes to that, but I hope He will spare me that.

Not really... Maybe because English is not my first language? It sounds familiar though. :confused: Maybe I don't want to know. I was like a 'dead man walking' before I met her. She is the happiness in my life. Nothing excited me before her. You probably couldn't even comprehend how this...

:( She said she has no time to read. She said she is stuborne and she will not change her belief and I must know that now. :( :( :( Maybe it is a step back or maybe I just didn't see it for as bad as it was. She is quite ignorant on the Word of the Lord though. She has...