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    ABANDONMENT

    Yes, absolutely. I know you said that others have told you this, but the fact that you care actually is proof of this. I had allowed my heart to get hardened; it isn't any more. Now I am not as pure and innocent as when I was 12, there are consequences for our actions--- but God is so good. He...
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    ABANDONMENT

    Yes. Confess, repent and intentionally soften your heart and try not to say no to God or the Holy Spirit; the Bible tells us that if we keep hardening our hearts, he allows us to! Also, find a church. Don't give up! It's out there. I had a hard time finding mine, but wish I had found it sooner.
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    ABANDONMENT

    I can't help but wonder, are you in a good church? One that is not dead, but where the Holy Spirit still moves and is alive? If so, have you talked to your Pastor or Pastor's wife? I have gone through this myself; I did a lot of backsliding, I even blamed God for some things and got to a place...
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    Sex, Dating and Relationships: A Christian Perspective

    Hi Shadow, it sounds as though you have a potential partner in mind, is that why you are wanting to get Christian opinions on relationships? If so, you are going to find as many opinions and takes on it as people you talk to! There are so many kinds of churches, so many kinds of Christians...
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    Is there hope in my complicated relationship?

    Hi Kolleen, I am really sorry to hear what you are going through-- that is really hard! I believe, as Christians we should only marry when that marriage will bring us closer to God; you should become a power couple for Christ! How can that happen if your potential partner doesn't put you above...
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    How's your 30 something going?

    I turn 35 in September; I have honestly loved my 30's. Best decade so far. I don't think I even knew what I wanted until I was about 28. That said, turning 34 really hit me; the 20's are in my distant past, 40's ahead.... life is kind of weird that way!