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We've had many conversations over the years but little seems to come of it. As I posted in a previous comment, it seems that something new always comes up (this past year it's the pastor position) and I feel it creates less time for us, it makes a bigger distance between us and often times...

Thank you for these resources. As I'm reading the love bank, it sounded identical to a Conversation my husband and I had. He told me that he had felt as if he withdrew too much out of my bank and he realized it was time to begin making deposits again. It was a wonderful, honest conversation...

Thank you for this... it sums up how I've felt lately.

Thank you for your questions... they're causing me to think about the intent. My debate for stepping away was that so much is required of us as my husband is a leader in the church and it's causing frustration towards my husband. For instance, he met with a young man in our small group...

That would be if he were indeed a "brother" in Christ. Since we cannot judge the heart and know the truth, we can only go based on a profession of faith from that person. If he indeed professes to be a Christian, yes the original poster would go to him first.

I think a wise place to start would be with speaking to your pastor (unless you are the pastor). Sometimes he may know more about the situation/person.

My post is so long... I apologize. My husband and I have been married for just over 5 years (he's 32 and I'm 27). We're both Christians but we've certainly struggled in our marriage. From the start we've hit rough patches. A week before we got married he opened up to tell me about his sexual...