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I feel for you, I really do. After reading this and your previous posts, I can see you have similar feelings to my current marriage. I don't think you should "fake" feelings if they are not there. I have done similar over the last 2 years and I now regret doing that. It builds up false...

The police in the UK are not as stringent as the US police. During the recession a few years back, police numbers were cut drastically and crimes like what I was victim too are seen as “low priority.” It is very frustrating but they have more serious crimes to try and cover with fewer numbers...

The wife has gone to work this morning leaving me in the house with him. I can’t even look at him he disgusts me that much. He has just settled back in like nothing has happened. Ate a load of food that wasn’t his and is laughing with his mates over the phone. Then I get my wife texting me it...

It is now 2340 at night and after being on the run for 9 days after kicking my back door in, he knocks on the door demanding access. Of course the wife runs down the stairs letting him in without a second thought for how I feel about it. I have removed what little posestions I have left and now...

Well, I arrived home late last night after a few weeks away working and several emotional messages during the day from the wife. She says, she fully understands where I am coming from and the stance I am taking but, she simply cannot put her “child” into the youth hostel and he needs to come...

I feel the most content I have in a long time. For me, it will go one of two ways, 1. The son will go into the hostel, seek the help he needs. This will rescue our marriage and in the long term would be best for everyone. 2. The wife moves the son back home. I separate and after some real pain...

The wife just text me. She has back tracked again. She always does which is half the problem. She wants him to come home under “stricter rules” that he will never follow. Apparently her Dad, Social Services, her girls at work and the Police say he should come home. I don’t care even if they did...

I have tired and I am being supportive. I have told her I love her and that I am proud of her. She is in bits and I feel really bad for her but this only makes me resent the son more. I hate him for what he has done to us all. I fully understand my wife’s maternal instincts and how hard it might...

Now that it has been a few weeks, I thought I would provide you all with an update. The day after I asked for the separation, my wife called me during the day asking to talk. I made it clear I did not want to argue nor would I allow her to just start tearing lumps out of me with her shouting and...

I do not have any suggestions. I feel broken, used and institutionalised. I am scared to leave, scared to stay. I have been with my wife since my early twenties. I can't even remember what it was like to be single. The years of emotional trauma have eaten away at me and now I feel lost. Things...

It was a sleepless night. The wife is refusing to acknowledge me in the house and I am so upset. I am so afraid of the future and wish me and the wife could sort it out. She admits she does not know what to do with the Son's behaviour's but immediately shoots down with vigour anything I suggest...

The wife has made it very clear, he is going nowhere. He has been on a mission to get me out for years. Even saying to his mum "I was here first."

I have just had the talk with the wife where I asked for a separation. I am so upset. She didn't take it too well. She didn't shout like I thought she would. She was just going on about how I have been a s&&t dad and a s££t husband. She accused me of not taking my wedding vows seriously and...

That sounds good I will try that. However, my wife's defence mechanism is to start shouting loudly calling me every name under the sun followed by the water works that she can turn on and off. There is just no calm conversation with my wife. Just her way to get what she wants is through...

My daughter is 13 and she has all of my love. We have been inseparable since she was born. She is my Angel. Having said that, as she now hits adolescents, her being a little grumpy is natural but she is also very influential. I am already seeing signs of mother in her unfortunately. Mainly the...

Thank you all for advice. All of it very meaning and exactly what I have been thinking but thought I was terrible to think that. I can't stand the son anymore. That might sound horrible but I can't help how I feel. He craps all over me every chance he gets and a wife who will do absolutely...

Agree entirely however, it will take time to leave my current job, secure new employment which means I am at home every night then secure a new house. In the meantime, I'm at a loss.

Maybe, we married in this church and consider them our friends. The Rector is very busy man. I just don't feel right troubling him with this. The councillor today is from a Christian organisation. I am just praying it helps.

I caught him stealing money on a hidden camera but the police say it wasn't enough to prosecute. As for the violence, he has to assault one of us before the police will do anything. They can't really do anything for threats of violence. As for him carrying a knife, he says it is for protection...