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    Why dating as a Millennial is so screwed up

    A bit of a blind post here. I tried dating for a long time... Many many messages. Always found people stuck up, strategic, ghosting, etc. It was a PITA because there was little to absolutely no common courtesy. I just stay away from most people unless required. My customers are older people...
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    Why Single For So Long??

    I always wanted it to work for me back in Hawai'i. Like it was a very isolated deal there, etc. But honestly I'd had gotten into a lot of trouble potentially, and with enough stability--you can avoid a lot of unnecessary hardships imho.
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    Taking wedding photos?

    Eh Meh. Redacted.
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    Why Single For So Long??

    I would say mine is that I am low vision and carry a paper which gives me ADA benefits in college. Also I lived in Hawaii which is super remote and it's not very kind to people like me. Then there's the typical weird and eccentric deal. What changed was moving to a big city, having some...
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    Anybody Else Tired of Christmas

    I see a lot of consumerism. I think it's over hyped and in the USA there's not a lot of time off--just a ton of buying gifts and going all out.
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    Dealing with infatuation

    Heart break or reality checks.
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    23 Years Old, Never Had a GF

    I can understand that well. My ex was a law student with straight As and her friends were chemical engineers--I can easily keep up, and even though I lack the education/drive I can keep ontop of them. The thing though is I am weird--like I can be rather soft, and am not a badass (my eventual...
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    23 Years Old, Never Had a GF

    Weird is always a good one. I've been told I am very weird and thoughtful. Maybe a different cultural base--so weird is normal since it's all different? I do fake when I need to for business. But in real life I joke around a ton and rail against a lot of things in a comical fashion...
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    Theory: You can get over a relationship, but not people

    I reflect on two in particular who peeve me. One had "plans" for me and was screwing with my time/effort. The other was sickly and just siphoned off my energy in a dysfunctional way. I do not wish the best or worst--God can handle them, and I never want to hear from them again.
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    Thoughts on weed?

    If you're not getting wasted from it, and it's actually medicinal then it could be a great thing. However, I would strongly encourage you to find the right strain, amount, dose, etc--where you're not "out of it", and it's helping but not intoxicating. Don't justify a bad behavior, however, do...
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    Theory: You can get over a relationship, but not people

    I have the same thing and gradually it fades. My ex, old best friend, and another long term crush--amongst others I may pray for once, and then forget about for a few months. @blackribbon summed it up well, and I concur with the OP. Even when engaged, married, etc--you think of old times...
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    God's Timing

    She's clocking in 200 hours a month at $8 an hour. No overtime but her boss lets her get off anytime, and he's a good guy but so so manager. In roughly 5-6 months she can do anything and being trilingual I hope it pays alright lol.
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    God's Timing

    Management since I needed something general and basic. I do a lot of random stuff though--I'm not a STEM major guy but I do like some of that stuff, and use my tinkering abilities to pay the bills. Money is a huge concern though and so I'm relegated to trusting that God will work it out.
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    God's Timing

    I make topographically accurate models of the Hawaiian islands using machinery... I live in Texas but that's my "job". It's profitable but the demand isn't huge and my growth has stagnated due to my lack of time to invest into new improvements. It's paid for three months of mission trips, a...
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    God's Timing

    Thanks--I am not 100% sure but I think they'll not want me anyhow lol. Might post a photo--but it'd be like for 24 hours and pulled down for privacy's sake. I'll post an official goodbye sooner than later. Not that I'm self absorbed just I had one thought, and another--so I'll nail the latter...
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    God's Timing

    I yesterday was thinking why I don't have more orders--then the obvious comes that I don't have the time and can't handle it... so why should I get more orders? The second thought is where I wanted someone and now that I am in the midst of many challenges I understand we need God's timing. I am...
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    A couple misconceptions about marriage that young adults have.

    I've been engaged for a bit and agree with everyone here. We don't think of that whole deal much as wrongly timed can be a problem.. Honestly the biggest instigator is my mother in law with her off color jokes. She knows we're well behaved (they're very happy about that) but I am not...
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    A couple misconceptions about marriage that young adults have.

    I do find a divide of what most millennials act like and what people used to be. I'm 25 but in a very different situation/mindset so I don't "get" most my age. I realize people have always got into trouble but the maturity, society's expectations, etc--they've all gone more out the wayside...
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    Was She Being Subtle?

    Eh I skimmed the topic. So really I didn't over think as much as I dropped into this thread too fast and left too much behind.
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    Was She Being Subtle?

    I can definitely control myself--fiance in tow and nothing has happened even though the future proposition is totally contrary. You are correct--sometimes it's hard to find a good public place to hang out and if she had the gumption to invite him over for a movie it'd be pretty cool. I have...