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    Respect people's property

    Bottom line...*IF* it is NOT YOURS then you really have no right to do anything with it .If he/she has given you permission then fine ..but if not then you really should stay hands off....
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    DH is mad because I want to change churches

    First..I am not abandoning him....we talked in depth last night and he has decide now that due to all going on at his job, that he can not attend ANY church right now. So am I too supposed to quit because he decides to stop going????? I refuse to do that, I happen to look forward to worship...
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    Why no music in the church of Christ?

    I just left a church that used a full band on a big stage..drums,keyboard two or threes guitars.sometimes even a grand piano....I left with a headache most Sundays...lol I am going back my former CoC..I am looking forward to the nice simple singing again.
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    DH is mad because I want to change churches

    I am going to church with a couple very dear friends, my Christian mom and sis..so to speak..I will not allow his behavior to choose where I go anymore... I will do my best to pay what I can on the bill and just pray that God forgives me for not being able to do more.
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    DH is mad because I want to change churches

    I have tried to make all of this very clear to him...he just brushes me off and says i am overreacting.... i have a part time sub job through the school district..but i get paid 100-200 per month if i am lucky...what he agreed to pay was over 200 a month..... i have tried to explain this to the...
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    DH is mad because I want to change churches

    The church I have been attending is a very uncomfortable place for me due to some strained relationships(due to some stuff done by DH) and I have been trying to tell him for a couple of months that I feel I need to change churches, but when I ask him to try others he says "no way, Im not going...
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    Looking for female penpal for encouragement...

    Hello I am also a SAHM...I would love in be a new friend for you. I live in Norther Ca
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    using a

    I personally like to have a good old paper and ink bible with me....I enjoy finding the scripture and reading along....guess i'm weird..lol
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    Why acappella only?

    I was baptized in non-instrument CoC in 2010,then went to a different non-denominational church for a few years which had a full band on stage and spent a lot of focus on the music worship. This coming weekend I am returning to the CoC and I am looking forward to just plain singing ...I can not...
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    Your fave reading time?

    Im just curious, What time do you all find the best for your personal daily bible reading? For me I find that spending a hour or so just casually reading through my bible right before bed helps me to sleep better, I don't need my sleeping meds..it just seems to relax me enough to fall asleep...
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    He refuses to read ..

    Yes I did..thanks..I will see if I can find a copy of the book
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    He refuses to read ..

    Yes..we have talked about getting help..but with me having the issues...then he feels I am the one in need of help. So basically as long as I clean the house..cook..take kids where they need to go..and perform my " wifely duty " when ever he wants then all is good for him. He is a good provider...
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    He refuses to read ..

    He knows how I feel...but he is fine with the way things are..so he does not take my concerns very seriously. Then I start to think I am nuts or being difficult...and this will lead to more issues...so I just feel "stuck"
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    He refuses to read ..

    Umm...no..lol It was more of me showing him what I would like.
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    He refuses to read ..

    I am trying very hard to be nice to him..to do little things for him..help him...be affectionate..but it just seems like he has checked out and I dont know what to do other than pray.I believe we are supposed to be together, but we are so far away from being"one" like the bible says we are to...
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    He refuses to read ..

    I have done that.... he responds by saying I am mean.
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    He refuses to read ..

    I am not sure....there are other areas that need help in regards to that....
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    He refuses to read ..

    Yes..he has made very known what he would like to do the other five nights:P
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    He refuses to read ..

    These points have been gently brought up..but so far nothing has changed. He says he is ok with things just as they are..so that makes me question myself...Am I expecting/wanting to much by wanting a Godly ,loving marriage? I don't know what the answers are, but I know I need to just pray about...
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    He refuses to read ..

    Nope...we split up about 8 months ago..but talked through things and we decided we wanted to work on our marriage..but now things are right back to the old ways... while we are not fighting ..we are not exactly passionate and as close as I would love to be. He zones out in front of the tv and we...