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    Judgemental Aunt Tearing My Family Apart

    Camaro, that is exactly what I wrote. That you would be attending Bible college. At what point did you judge me and render my words not worth reading? I in fact, have been cast as the "aunt" by the words I have spoken here. Amazing!
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    Judgemental Aunt Tearing My Family Apart

    Camaro said that she will be attending bible college. There will be others who come across and act just like the aunt which makes her unhappy. Suggesting Camaro learn what it requires to live with others we don't like is not "abuse". We are fond of deleting people we don't find attractive in...
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    How do you "forgive" when someone denies having done wrong?

    An interesting view of forgiveness is found in Acts when Stephen is being stoned to death. Stephen prayed for those who were killing him. (This is what it looks like when God is within us) One of those who was there and a recipient of that prayer was Paul. We know Paul went on to be a slave for...
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    Judgemental Aunt Tearing My Family Apart

    Obviously you have decided what is appropriate as per AL ANON wisdom even though I did not address you. Interesting.
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    Judgemental Aunt Tearing My Family Apart

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    Judgemental Aunt Tearing My Family Apart

    It is a real possibility that when we "represent" another person's problems that we have flavored them. Tell the aunt I will adopt her as my own if she loves God so much she has risked being "loved by her family" for it. Whether she actually has said, "God to me to judge everybody"-maybe...
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    Judgemental Aunt Tearing My Family Apart

    She is God's problem not yours. Ask God to give you love for her. Where is your mercy and compassion? If you don't have any then ask God to make you merciful. Maybe she is lonely because no one likes her. Maybe she thinks its her job to "save" her family which is why she is acting out. When...
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    How do you "forgive" when someone denies having done wrong?

    One time when Jesus was teaching, his mother and brothers came for Him. Jesus was told that his mother, brothers and sister were there and Jesus said,"Who are my brothers, my mother, my sisters? Those who do the will of my Father are my brothers, mother and sisters". Something that we do not...
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    How do you "forgive" when someone denies having done wrong?

    Forgiveness is giving it to the Lord as an act of your will. It is not necessary for anyone to acknowledge their wrongdoing. I do not want to hold unforgiveness because I don't want it to come between me and the Lord therefore I surrender any "rights" to hold another in unforgiveness. Scripture...