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    Scared of Dying... (long)

    I would search for a christian doctor in your area to see what else may be going on with you. I also suggest you get a book called "deadly emotions" by dr don colbert. Also go to his website and tell him of your physical and mental problems you are having and your fear of dying by sending him...
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    Character Education and Personal Development

    repent of your sins and let god have total control, he does anyway, read and live by the word of god. only he can make you a better person, we are incapable of it by ourselves.
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    I don't know how open I want to be about this but....

    As we Christians we are to love others as Christ did and help them to stay on the path of righteousness. We all sin and God is never going to give us easy. That is why God's gift to us will be eternal life in a perfect world. So while we are here we will have temptation and sin come at us. The...
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    What is wrong with me? Why can't I just....

    There is help. nothing is wrong with you, we all sin we all give in to temptations. Thats why christ came. for you and me. who knows you better than you know yourself. Go to the website exodus international. they have been helping people for 30 years who struggle with homosexuality. It is a...
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    Natural way to quit smoking?

    did it cold turkey 20 years ago, still at times wonder how i did it, but if you have a very strong desire you can do it and pray and keep faith in god, you will get the cravings but your will and your mind can keep you strong. start exercising and the more you stay away from smoking the better...
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    What is Marraige?

    Since marriage is not truly a legal agreement which only exists in the laws of man, what is marriage according to God? It is a covenant: Since God is our Creator it only makes sense that to live happy, fulfilling, and contented lives we must follow His instruction. One of the most obvious...
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    What should I do? My spiritual life is in turmoil.

    It will take time to be at peace, Stop beating yourself up about your relationship with god. the devil likes to make us feel guilty. God is a god of restoration. You going though some very normal things. the flesh our spirits dwell in our corrupt. Its a lifelong struggle, Our normal nature as...
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    What should I do? My spiritual life is in turmoil.

    I sense a lot of frustration in you, Do me a favor, In don't know if you have ever seen or heard of joyce meyer. Go to here website, just type her name in a search engine, then when you get there watch today's lesson on God's grace and frustration. I like her a lot as what she talks about is...
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    What should I do? My spiritual life is in turmoil.

    Each day you awaken. get on your knees and thank God for another day. We all are sinners. as you talk to God Ask him for help. After you pray open your bible and pick a verse to memorize and meditate on all day. Proverbs is a great place to start. God knows your struggles each day. He knows it...
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    Spouses who let themselves go.

    I feel your not as shallow as you think. So many do this. But I look at this way, if we are to worship god and try to serve his purpose and we are not owner of our bodies as they are the temple of God. then if we let ourselves go are defiling the temple of god. We also are dishonoring and...
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    Struggling with homosexuality

    I am proud of you and anyone who is seeking help with this struggle, The time this is an abomination to the lord is if a person has no desire to repent of this sin and keeps doing it. You feel convicted of your sin and you struggle. That conviction is the holy spirit. You are in a spiritual...
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    A little about me. Bound to have a trigger or two....

    Hi Melissa, It took tremendous courage to come here and tell about yourself, I don't know what directed you here but I am glad you came. You have never had a family life of any kind. In some ways I am amazed your still alive. My name IS Jeff and I am a 50 yr old guy with a very compassionate...
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    The Hypocrisy of Christians on Homosexual Marriage

    I suggest you read the Manhattan declaration as this is what is says about marriage before you go calling Christians hypocrites and where does the bible say you can't remarry? Like most who post here you pick certain bible passages to try to prove a point. I suggest you read 1 Corinthians...
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    At what point do wives stop caring about their husbands?

    Wow, a great smile on my face as Those who wrote here have strong marriages. Jevlenko I am glad you and your husband are staying committed and seeking help to stay married. God said we will have these storms. Even in our marriages. But we must keep him first and know he gave this person to...
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    What is Marraige?

    To be God blessed we must marry the right person. But as we know so many don't. I didn't the first time. Marriage is something to enter into under God. But how many say the words at a ceremony and ignore God afterward. God must be a staple and at the front of your marriage. There will be some...
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    What is Marraige?

    The Bible teaches us that marriage is a central part of God's creation covenant. Indeed, the union of husband and wife mirrors the bond between Christ and his church. And so just as Christ was willing, out of love, to give Himself up for the church in a complete sacrifice, we are willing...
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    At what point do wives stop caring about their husbands?

    Never if your in a good marriage,
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    Teaching about Homosexuality in Schools

    Ok is this a liberal university that is offering this class on what is politically correct in this nation? That part about moral superiority is disturbing. That indicates a person would be arrogant and God hates that. Humbleness is what is needed. But there are other factors to blame as well...
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    Teaching about Homosexuality in Schools

    It is very hard to love certain people when their sin is part of who they are. We each meet people we don't like. That is normal and God knows that. We must love them. To say your a christian and live it are so different. We are to love our enemies as well. Going beyond loving our neighbors...
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    Teaching about Homosexuality in Schools

    To answer your question. It is very immoral and sinful. They are nothing but hypocrites if they show any violent or abusiveness by using words that are wrong and derogatory. We are always to love the sinner and hate the sin. But many are not taught this way. I was raised in a racist home. When...