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Yes, two things that are comparable. And a woman and a man being naked together is not comparable to a straight man and a naked man being naked together. Now who is resorting to insults? Says the guy who doesn't want gays to be out in the military. Yes I did, and like I said, women are not...

Perhaps, but you could never know how it feels to be a woman in that situation, nor could a woman know how it feels to be a man in that situation. That's why the two can't be compared. That's your problem. I answer the question to the best of my ability. I have no sympathy for the ones who...

Are you a woman? No. How can you compare a woman showering with a man to a straight man showering with a gay man? Yes I did: Okay. Question #1: how many heterosexual men have to be uncomfortable for me to act? I don't care how many heterosexual men get uncomfortable from the possibility of...

Do you threaten people's lives, sir?

Bingo.

So it's all about you and your peace of mind. You approve of gays serving their country for several years being forced to hide what they are, rather than having a few straight men be "uncomfortable" for 9 weeks in basic training. Yeah, that sounds fair.

Seeing as how you don't know the majority of straight men, this too is just a sweeping generalization. I have no idea. I take the law of averages that people develop at different stages and figure that some 10-year-olds are adolescents, and some 18-year-olds are still going through adolescence...

So it's okay for you to be ogled, just as long as you don't know you're being ogled. Got it. Ignorance is bliss. Which question would that be?

That all straight men are fine with showering with other straight men, but would be uncomfortable being in a shower with a gay man. Some are. I served for 8 years, working with military men every single day. And while some were homophobes worried about some gay guy getting into their...

I think showering with gay women is an analogous situation. Now considering that gays already serve in the military, and I was crowded with approximately 75 other females both times I went through basic training, chances are I showered with a gay woman. I never got hit on, and I never heard...

And you like to generalize mass opinions solely on your own. Most people who join the military are straight out of high school. Depending on their growth of development, some are still adolescents at this time. Fine. You know more about men in the military, because you obviously served with...

So it's okay to slaughter children because of things they might do when they're grown up?

Family Guy is one of the best.

Exactly my point.

I didn't write that men ask me to shower with them, I wrote that women are objectified by men every day. Now I'll ask you again, would you be bothered showering with other men, one of whom happened to be gay, because you are afraid of being treated like a woman?

Oh really? Some heterosexual men tend to disagree. And from what I've heard, this has made for some seriously embarrassing high school memories. Are you, one man, trying to tell me how all men think on a subject? Like I said before, relax. Gay men probably wouldn't want you anyway.

That's fine. I will never accept any rule in which people have to live a lie, and I know someday it will be overturned.

Actually, this is akin to a woman having any contact with a man. Being objectified is something we put up with everyday. Are you afraid that someone would have the audacity to treat you like a woman?

No. It is to be expected that men are generally uncomfortable showering with other men, regardless of their sexuality. However, if you were the one worrying about the gay man next to you, who probably wouldn't find you attractive anyway, then your anxiety is your fault, not his.

Have you ever been in military basic training? Have you ever had to shower with several other men before?