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    I have never ever ever

    I have never been prosecuted over a violent gym altercation and sentenced to 20 hrs of community service spent as a santa clause in the mall during Christmas season.
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    Totally wierded out tonight...

    You can always burn the house down and then the firefighters will come and rescue you.
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    Am I alone?

    "Bring the truth in love" --God
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    have a listen to my brother's music ministry

    Hey all, just thought I would share my brother's music ministry with you all. He has a very fresh, unuque, and God-inspired sound that I think will help impact many younger people seeking God in today's crazy and confusing world. My favorite is 'meet me where I am'. I have been learning that one...
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    where did you meet your spouse?

    I'm curious where you people have met your spouse at? I have been in a lot of <unsuccessful> relationships up to this point and now I'm starting to get this slow burning yearning to meet my eventual wife.
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    Any suggestions for churches in NoVA?

    I'm curious if anyone has any suggestions for churches in northern Virginia? I moved out here a couple of months ago and have been bouncing around several churches but would like to find one I can call home.
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    relationship advice... again please

    Thanks again for the uplifting words. I know nothing of your circumstances and you obviously know nothing of mine. We'll leave it at that. I'll now retire a 2nd time from Christianforums hall of fame for another year or more before randomly appearing again merely to solicit the approval of...
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    relationship advice... again please

    +1, Thanks. As for the other posts, I really wanted to give as few details as possible about the whole situation and just get simple advice. One of the problems with the internet however is you start making all sorts of assumptions about things you really have no idea about. For one I never...
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    relationship advice... again please

    Not to pick apart your post, but she did have nearly all the qualities I had been praying for. But it seemed the very roots that gave her each of those qualities I struggled to accept. If that makes any sense.
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    relationship advice... again please

    How then, do you distinguish between the normal insecurities of a relationship from your primary instincts?
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    relationship advice... again please

    All relationships have ups and downs, much like anything in life but you hope that in the long run you are improving it. I didn't see us having a 'down' month as a threat to the relationship necessarily. As for listening to her conversation causing me to be the bad guy reminds me of the story...
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    relationship advice... again please

    We broke up. I feel horrible too. She was an amazing person. She is exactly the kind of person I always dreamed about marrying but with all the best qualities I longed for came challenges I hadn't anticpated. I hope I'm not making a mistake here.
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    Thoughts on breakup

    I just posted a thread for needed advice myself but I'll throw one in on this thread. I had a similar situation years ago. I celebrate Christmas but by severely minimizing the Hallmark factor in it while at the same time I had a girlfriend who went all out. We disagreed. Did it matter? No...
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    relationship advice... again please

    I have been dating a girl for 9 months which up until last month has gone really well. However in the last month we both have drifted apart emotionally from each other. Speaking for myself the reason I drifted from her is because I have a hard time seeing a long-term relationship working out...
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    Advice to stop having sex?

    Hi to everyone! I was curious if any of you could lend me some good advice on how to transform a relationship from having sex in it to not having sex in it? Hopefully I can get real advice from real people who have been in this place or can empathize with someone in this place. My girlfriend...
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    Is fitness competiton self centered?

    its easy to get legalistic and say this may cause someone else to sin in lust or that you need to be healthy, but the bottom line is simple. If you elevate bodybuilding above Jesus then it is a problem. I struggle with this. Although I have accepted that I will never be competitive in a...
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    Inadvertently cast myself into ketosis this week

    I'll reply tomorrow. I need to play the guitar for a bit before I go to bed :groupray:
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    Inadvertently cast myself into ketosis this week

    I have been tempted before to go the steroid route but that is not from God. I'll get there eventually, just may take a few decades or so :). I wish I had a doctor tell me to stop exercising! I sure wouldn't put up much resistance against that ;)
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    Inadvertently cast myself into ketosis this week

    As long as I don't have a girlfriend I will be able to sustain the schedule :D. Usually I will beef up my routine for 12 week intervals and then I'll lay off a bit. I am trying to cut down to around 8% bf or so, which is quite difficult with my genetics. Right now I'm about 200 lbs at 10%...
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    Inadvertently cast myself into ketosis this week

    I never can sustain this workout regeme (10-14 hrs lifting + 2 hrs cardio per week) for very long. It is just convenient for me because my work has a gym and I don't eat lunch during lunch break. It is natural for workout rather then just sit around for an hour.