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Actually according to scripture God is... we just get confused with the abuse of power we see men execute in scripture. That isnt how God intended, we are meant to match one another and equally love and serve one another. There is no union like man and woman other than God with humanity...

i dont find that its away from scripture or opening any doors to something evil. remember Jere 33:3 Call to Me and I will tell you great and unsearchable things that you do not know.

Thank you for all of your prayers! id rather not give his name out or initials. sorry - but ty!

This is something I pulled from a CF blog. It is so beautiful I wanted to re-post it. If only the entire world had this wonderful view! When I created the heavens and the earth, I spoke them into being. When I created man, I formed him and breathed life into his nostrils. But you woman, I...

I see what youre intent is a bit clearer. Thanks. I tend to agree... and it comes down to husbands and wives are bound to serve each other sexually. What makes a marriage? Its not the ceremony, its not the paper work, its the consummation that binds the marriage and actually makes it a...

I thought about putting this in the healing ministry section but there is more to it than just physical sickness. I have had a friend for many years who doesnt live in the same state i live in ( actually we've both moved to different states since ive known him) anyway - He has...

I have to agree and oppose you on this. "Legitimate" or not, pastors even if anointed and born to be a pastor are still human and fall short of the glory of God! We are ALL called to reflect God! We all fail at times. Even legitimate pastors as you put it may need a time to step back and...

I do not know, but i do know this; Many pastors/leaders teach what they think is best but isnt always best. If that makes sense. Also some are called but get off track, become spiritually dead, etc. Pastors are human.

I suggest you continue to develop your relationship/awareness of God. Nurture that love you spoke of. Accept yourself as you are because God does, that is how vast Gods love is. Also be willing to allow Gods love to change you and mold you. None of us wake up 'super 'christian' ' ready to...

She had a shirt or dress that showed cleavage you mean? Maybe its as simple as, we are women - we have breasts - they tend to stick out a bit no matter what we do (especially depending upon the size). I am pretty sure that God looks at the heart more so than the outside of a person. I...

I am with them, prayer and meditations are good! I say some seemingly simple things to God fairly often - purify my heart, let me see through Your eyes of Truth & Love, change my heart/being, prune the branches Lord, etc. Also, ask God to show you what to pray for. I am not sure how you will...

I agree, we often do seem to punish each other for the generalities of life - especially if we arent aware we are doing it at times. The I cant "just" do it part, i dont know where the motivation or lack of motivation is coming from so its hard to get a clear view. Does she mean not...

This is a bit off of the topic but i am always willing to explore a subject. Why not give your wife some lovin' and then get some sleep? I noticed past hurt and pain (from the relationship as well as apart from the relationship) has tried to take its toll in my marriage too (and has at...

I didnt feel he was jumping down my throat personally - but i was wondering lol Otherwise I love this post! Exactly, sir!

I see what youre saying. Cant and wont is different, or even cant and i will but it doesnt feel as good for me? Or if youre lucky (lol) she just WILL and say nothing other than sweet nothings in your ear ;p I have never had a physical affair so i dont know what its like to "jump in the car"...

I think a pastor could teach on the goodness of sex just as easily as the negative side to it. If they can teach sexual sin w/out discussion I am pretty sure they could find some scripture to address sex realistically in a positive light to the congregation.

I totally agree with you on this. Maybe if we were teaching the real take on sex in marriage for both parties more women would feel more open and even possibly desire sex more often? I have seen a pastor actually read from song of solomon in service, encouraging the beauty of married union...

I have traveled and lived all over the USA & have been to multiple denominations/churches & found different churches seem to have a different take on sex. Does your pastor talk about marriage sex often or at all? What kind of spin does your church put on sex? Is it all 'the sin of...

I think our favorite romantic movies as a couple are probably The Story of Us & Gone with the Wind. We make a point to watch Gone with the Wind ever so often. :) Part II was good too! :D

Have you considered instead of just breaking it off - leaving maybe to a shelter or family etc? I know this seems extremely scary and so many things can come up from to keep us from changing/stepping out. Fear namely! If he still shows no real interest or care to change ( if you do decide to...