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    Things I love about being 30

    Like many of my fellow 30 have mentioned, more confident and care less about what people think of me; I still do a little but not as much.
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    Is 30 the new 20?

    I think it's just a simple fact of people being less mature than before. I mean, there are so many 30 something people mingling around single, and when you don't get married and have kids your maturity level kind of stops because you only have yourself to worry about. That's my case at least...
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    My co-worker is mad at me / not speaking to me

    How old is she? she's probably one of those people that never grew out of immaturity :destroy:
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    Just turned 30 and am having a hard time dealing with all the expectations

    Hey don't feel so bad.. I'm 33 and back in school to finally get that degree I abandoned 13 years ago (I'm lucky my school still retained my credits). Everyone is just so freshly young and I haven't seen anyone who looks over 25 yet, haha. There's this one guy who is definitely over 50 years...
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    Single or Single again and thirty

    all my friends at 33 years of age are single as well. I wish one of them would get marry so we can start a chain reaction
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    Single or Single again and thirty

    I've been single for about 8 months now after a 4.5 years relationship. But it was after the break that made me want to get married; not necessarily to my ex-girlfriend but marriage in general. However, if things work out with my ex, I wouldn't mind getting married to her, because she's a...
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    I need to vent...

    Sounds just like my mother. But she has her reasons so that's how I try to look at it. She's not happy that I'm 33, I recently quit my job to go back to school and finish a computer programming degree and that I broke up with my long term girlfriend whom I was supposed to marry and give her...
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    Your longest relationship?

    Well, people learn from mistakes. Next Jesus-loving gal God sends my way I'm marrying her within 1 year. I know many people that held relationships for a long time (5+ years) and got married, and I guess that's fine. But now that I look back, if you are ok with your partner after a year or...
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    Your longest relationship?

    yay! :clap: If there's one thing I would have liked to do is getting married at around your age 26 and have about 3 kids at around the age I'm at right now :D
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    Living with Non-Christian boyfriend. In need of HELP!!

    Well speaking from experience, everything is permissible but not everything is beneficial to you. There are consequences to every decision you make. I know this pastor who told me that he married because of physical attraction. Well, his wife wasn't a believer and he tried to make her to go...
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    Your longest relationship?

    Well buddy, I hope you find that special person God has set apart for you.
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    Your longest relationship?

    Any particular reasons why? If you were below 20 I would just think maybe you still haven't broken out of your male den, but at 27, haven't you been attracted or at least interested enough to try talking to a female? just wondering.
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    Your longest relationship?

    Were you engaged throughout the whole 3 years? or at the end of it?
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    How to know if your destined to be single?

    If God made you his child, the only sure destination for you is his kingdom. Everything else really doesn't matter. So you shouldn't think you were destined to be single or destined to be anything for that matter.
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    Your longest relationship?

    Mine, 4 years and 5 months I think. I can actually get the exact number but it would just bring back memories and you know those hurt if you dig deep into them. So, what is the longest relationship you held with the opposite sex? :)
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    are pretty girls worth it?

    Even though looks aren't everything, they do play a big role in how certain girls develop their attitudes and confidence or lack of it. I think by nature women are very attracted by beauty; so the majority in my opinion are very self aware of their image. God gave male leadership and physical...
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    Serious Issue(Please try not to flame me)

    Trust me, there's not limit to what the human mind can think of when it is deprived of the truth. You need to put the word of God in that mind so that it cleans the impurity. Just because you fantasize about rape doesn't make it any more scum-like than fantasizing about any other sexual thing...
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    I did something very awful...cannot forgive myself...need prayers. HURTING.

    You're not a monster, you're a sinner, welcome to the club. It might seem like you're the biggest sinner now, but guess what, we all crucified Jesus on the cross. His one drop of blood can forgive billions, no quadrupotrillions and you think your acts of sin cannot be forgiven? He didn't die...
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    Breaking off 3-Year Relationship

    When I first started reading your post I thought this was going to be about your boyfriend not being committed to God enough and conflict between you two because of it. But after reading the whole thing, it is clear that you're just not interested or in love with him anymore. You just want...
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    We really messed up... will God even listen to us anymore?

    David killed a man but was called by God "a man after his own heart", and you think your one act of sin can't be forgiven? run, run fast away from that church; they take Jesus' death in vain. He didn't die for you so you could feel guilty about your sins, but rather feel empowered by his love...