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  1. Harley.

    Please I need help...made an oath in my head.

    Ive had OCD since I was a kid, im through alot of it now. But sometimes an event rears its ugly head. And then I spiral. I was listening to music. And I had the intrusive thought "If my fiancee comes online before the next song starts, ill break up with her". Utter stupidity right? Well I...
  2. Harley.

    Please help me...betting my life

    Ive had OCD since I was a kid, im through alot of it now. But sometimes an event rears its ugly head. And then I spiral. I was listening to music. And I had the intrusive thought "If my fiancee comes online before the next song starts, ill break up with her". Utter stupidity right? Well I...
  3. Harley.

    Idk where to put this. But i need an accountability partner bad.

    Im M19. I got addicted to p*** when i was 7. And…spiraled from there. Ive been trying to stop for years and Ive honestly just been getting worse. I hate it, i hate myself, i hatebthat i give in so easily. I need someone, preferably someone struggling with the same issue, so i too can be...
  4. Harley.

    Can satan cause someone to love another?

    Does satan have the ability to make someone love another?
  5. Harley.

    I (18M) just got into a huge fight with my mother because i refused to do what they asked, because it would be sin.

    Theyre now livid at me because i refuse to lie to someone. Saying im “trying to start fights” when i just don’t want to go against the Lord. They are calling me disrespectful and rude…I dont know what to do…do i just lie??
  6. Harley.

    My Journey with OCD.

    My name is Harley. A decent number of people on here will recognize my posts as over the last two years I have posted obsessively about my OCD. Typically asking similar or at times IDENTICAL things. From my earliest memories I have suffered from OCD. I was one of the rare lucky cases to...
  7. Harley.

    My OCD is "making" me pray to God things I don't want to pray...

    Like it will pressure me to pray things like "I don't care that X is a sin Lord. If you want me to stop, you might as well kill me." and for some reason sometimes I give in, and even though I tell God "I don't mean that" instantly after. My heart starts to physically hurt every time. Like God...
  8. Harley.

    I need a accountability partner.

    I have struggled for most of my life. I was exposed to NSFW stuff at the young age of seven unfortunitly...and...its just gotten worse. At the begging of this year I made a promise to myself that by this years end I would be in a much better place in terms of lust. And needless to say. Im...
  9. Harley.

    as a man can I have long hair?

    Im confused. My hair is currently at my shoulder blades and I was gonna grow it to mid back...but then I read 1 Corinth 11:15 and now im confuseddddd.
  10. Harley.

    Does God still love me after Ive sinned/before ive asked for forgiveness?

    Or is there a period where God no longer loves me? Im just curious.
  11. Harley.

    Can Satan make people fall in love??????????

    I became a Christian in the summer of 2022. Prior to that, I had been an atheist for many many years. However, there is one thing I should clear up. Despite being an atheist, I never played around with the demonic, I didn't want to "poke the bear" so to speak. So maybe I was more agnostic...
  12. Harley.

    Does anyone else have it where they get a thought "if you dont do X a certain number of times, Y will happen?

    Does anyone else have it where they get a thought "if you dont do X a certain number of times, Y (punishment, or something bad that I don't want to occur) will happen? Is it God?
  13. Harley.

    My prayers as a kid

    Ive been looking back at alot of the things I used to do as a kid and am realizing that alot of them weren't proper. For example, I used to have a specific prayer I had to pray, and it wouldnt be answered till I prayed it perfectly. That...that doesnt sound like God...at the time I didnt know...
  14. Harley.

    "if you dont do X a certain number of times, Y will happen"

    Does anyone else have it where they get a thought "if you dont do X a certain number of times, Y (punishment, or something bad that I don't want to occur) will happen? Is it God?
  15. Harley.

    DAE have frequent deja vu due to anxiety

    Last may (Exactly one year ago) I started to experience frequent deja vu. First it was once every few weeks, then once a week and now its several times a day. I can't shake it and im terrified that its seizures. I have seen two neuros and both have said im most likely in the clear but im...
  16. Harley.

    I have been a fool.

    I have had OCD my whole life. A large chunk of my ocd in the last few years has been impulsive and intrusive thoughts (two different things) to God asking him to do/give me certain things in exhange for my life. These have always TERRIFYED me. Especially when said thing actually ends up...
  17. Harley.

    What is this

    For example, I used to have this thing where I would suddenly, OUT OF NOWHERE get a thought saying something like "You're going to get cancer soon". This was an actual thought I got once. And the only way to stop this event (whatever it was at the time) from happening was I had to keep repeating...
  18. Harley.

    What happened?

    So I have OCD, growing up I had the typical "If you dont do that 4 more times X will happen" kind. But over the years it has morphed its way through many different styles. However something weird happened today. I looked over at my second screen and saw somebody in my contacts and had a...
  19. Harley.

    What is this?

    Ever since I was little ive had this weird thing, where I would be doing something random, like literally anything, and this voice in my head would suddenly say "do that X amount more times or Y(bad thing) will happen". And I would be forced to go do it again. It may be five times, may be 10...