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    Job loss.. And love

    I've been dating a guy for 4 months. I called him to tell him that I found out that I may be laid off. I have a very strong/successful career .. So does he. He seemed supportive., emotionally. Then this morning.. He texted very rarely. He was busy on business. But never ended up calling me...
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    He has herpes.

    A girlfriend asked me for advice and I have NO idea what to tell her. She is divorced and dating a guy who is also divorced. He was married for 15 years. She says that after a few dates they began messing around. She gave him oral. But hasnt had sex yet. Well he just told her 2 weeks AFTER...
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    Is this normal?

    I've had a lot of marital issues but this recent situation is one I just feel I need objective insight on. A couple of months ago I was working on a peoject at work with a man who seemed to make some subtle advances. The project was intense but he would call or text at all hours. My husband...
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    Facebook Rants

    My husband and I both have very public jobs and I know that we have both been told that our Facebook pages are reflections of us and our employers. Well last year I found my husband complaining on Facebook ... About his boss. I immediately told him to take it down! He did, reluctantly. I...
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    Please tell me if I'm wrong

    Here’s my story. Verge of divorce.Married a man for 12 years One child who is 6. My husband is like living with 2 different people at time. He makes a good living – although I’m the bread winner.] I work full time and double his income. He works hard – but doesn’t ever see himself trying to...
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    Truth hurts

    I had a chat with my husband last night about my therapy sessions. As you will see in a previous thread, we have many challenges. One of which is money. We are seriously in debt. I am the breadwinner but I recently got transferred to a new city with better hours and less money. The city and...
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    My big day and he called for WHAT?!?

    I had to travel out of town for a big corporate meeting. I have extreme pressure on me for this meeting. My job depends on it. My husband knows this. When I left he didn't ask what airline I was flying... Where I was staying. Anything. I guess that's fairly normal. But 30 minutes before...
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    sex problems

    So it's been more than a month since my husband initiated. We have had weird/bad sexual history. He can't last and refuses to address it. So this morning... I initiate. He laid there. Let me satisfy him with my hand and then got up and went to the bathroom. Is that common? Just laid there...
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    Spilling the truth. Being honest. Please be kind.

    I need some feedback.[bless and do not curse] I grew up in a very dysfunctional family.[bless and do not curse] My parents were a wreck and I couldn't wait to get clear of their house --and i've been working ever since. [bless and do not curse] I didn't date much growing up.[bless and do not...
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    Trouble in Paradise

    Hi I'm new here. I'll try to keep this short. Been married for 11 years. One child who is 6. I grew up in a dysfunctional family and I got married because I was trying to escape it. My husband has always been a drama king and even from the very beginning there was trouble. to be honest - i...